Is it cringe to post this after breakup?

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misogynistic_pig · Accepted Answer

There is nothing shameful about sharing your feelings after a breakup.

In fact, it is a common and natural experience to feel pain, sadness, confusion, and other feelings when a relationship ends.

Sharing your feelings can be a healthy way to process what has happened and seek support and comfort.

It's important to remember that talking about your feelings doesn't make you weak or less valuable as a person.

However, before posting anything online, it is important to keep in mind that anything posted on the internet can be seen by many people and have consequences in the future.

If you want to share your feelings, you may want to do so in a more private and safe setting, such as with close friends or family, or in a support group for people who have been through similar experiences.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

My first questiion would be, "why do you NEED a bikinii and a tan?" For most girls, they would be working on their appearance so they can attract a man. So the meme seems to simply suggest that the girl is in the denial phase of recovery.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes lol 😂😂😂

After a break up you’re not supposed to show that you’re hurt or moving on or anything.

You’re not supposed to show anything at all. 😬😬 Anything at all.

Literally.. if you do this. It’s gonna come off as desperation or you being hurt. It comes off as pathetic.

If anything delete all social media or leave social media for at-least 3 months. 😬😬 Cause the idea is to show that you don’t care. If anything change your name on social media. Or take a tour to Dubai or go to a different state for a while. Cut all contact. Change hair color to something natural-looking or normal like black or blonde or brown. Or cut your hair short. Just, DO NOT BE ON YOUR SOCIALS AND/OR EXPRESS ANYTHING. Yikes 😬.

This is common knowledge.

Smc08 · Accepted Answer

No. Go to the beach get you a margarita and relax. People on here are some judgmental haters. Don’t even know if it was you that broke up or him. They read it they see oh poor girl got dumb. I’m not sure what they are reading. I read it and I see, someone who is fed up and need a vacation after being in a relationshit.

FYI SLOW PEOPLE: she needs a bikini in a tan. Meaning she needs to go to the beach and have fun for once in a long time. Get it girl. 😂

Pinay_ako · Answer

Sounds like she’s trying to downplay her hurt and yearning for her man that left her so ouch 😣 and cringey 😬

WonderBell99 · Answer

Whatever helps you cope. It's a bit cringey, but you'd probably receive replies like: "YESS 💅💅" or "slayy queen" lmao.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

The part about not needing a man is a little overdone, but the part about the bikini and tan is okay.

If a bikini and a tan helps you cope then so be it. I often head out on a little vacation to collect my thoughts and center myself, if I've been through a break-up.

Steelcore5280 · Answer

Cringe? Maybe.

Incredibly childish and immature and makes you look like you're a really petty bitch? Absolutely. Imagine a man posting something similar. He'd get mercilessly attacked and be called all sorts of stuff like "incel" or "beta" for it.

Mangospacho · Answer

Kind of. It implies that you can only have a bikini and a tan if you’re single. This isn’t true because you can buy a bikini without proof that you’re single. Also, just walking outside can get you a tan without verifying your relationship status. UV rays still hit you when you’re in a monogamous relationship.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Women show off after a breakup by not being miss independent or by getting with another man. From a man's perspective that's just sad and makes me think I dodged a bullet.

Men show off by not letting it interfere with their life. Keep making money. Being social. Going to the gym. Etc. Could be dating but not if it's like a gotcha or excessive because then it does make you look like shit.

Pegases · Answer

isn't all of the rhetoric like this cringe at this point? Plus, when people don't need something, they don't go out of their way to let it be known to everyone. It just makes the women that say this look silly.

Anonymous · Answer

Ah, yes. The "come and get it" post mixed with the "strong and independent" trope and a touch of "nobody is good enough for me".

Well done. You're sure to attract the simps and fuckboys, and have your pick of the next substandard man in your life.

molonski2 · Answer

Yes , its simply a reaction that actually shows the vulnerability of the individual making the post , the actual opposite of what they were looking to achieve.

humanearth · Answer

I don't need a man, I have a wife and I have a bikini, plus I tan easily So I'm set Enjoy the laugh

FifiJones · Answer

It's stupid. Means you need to learn to work and to get sexier. Which is why he didn't try - your fake laziness and high opinion of yourself.

pepper1993 · Answer

yeah but like others said, whatever floats your boat. i would certainly roll my eyes if i saw this though.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. And hypocrisy.

Or maybe you were dating a woman in which case you either really don't need a man... Or you really do but maybe work on the quality of your choices instead of blaming men for them.

electromagnetic · Answer

Sounds like you ego is a little bruised.  Don’t sweat the tiny details. Move on girl.

ColHathi · Answer

A little bit maybe, if only because it's slightly unnecessarily rude. I know you don't actually mean to offend though.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Social media is full of cringe and virtue signaling anyway, so you'll fit right in with this post

AaronKrieger · Answer

Yeah, it's very transparent that you're coping with something

zagor · Answer

Why would you want a bikini and a tan, except to get a man? Tans don't bring any intrinsic pleasure, and neither do bikinis. It would make more sense to say a toke and a beer.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

This quote about "i don't need a man" always makes me laugh, what makes you think that a real man needs you in the 1st place? A man only needs a woman who needs him 😏

slatyb · Answer

No, it's not. But don't get a tan. It's not healthy.

Orion76 · Answer

That’s what I’m talking about man We need more women, more bikinis tan or no tan 😅

David4358 · Answer

just go on with your life like nothing happened is the best reply.. this just tells everyone that you are trying to hard and its the opposite.

Quigly · Answer

Yes, it is cringe. It makes you sound like you were insincere in the relationship from the beginning and you are a fraudulent person.

Anonymous · Answer

i mean sure. but if this helps them cope, i'd say let them cope.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Sounds like she's trying too hard to convince herself she's okay.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, it does sound dumb whenever women say they don’t need a man, we need each other

MementoMori777 · Answer

Somewhat, definitely makes you sound hurt tho

Lynx122 · Answer

I'd say yes :D

DizzyDesii · Answer

I mean its whatever

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Very. It makes no sense. It's a lame rhyme.

fonduegirl · Answer

You're trying too hard to not need him.

KrisKris81 · Answer

Yes. Might as well buy a billboard decrying denial

genericname85 · Answer

Yeah absolutely XD

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

A little bit, yes.

gag37627 · Answer

That's totally a dramatic move

007kingifrit · Answer

yea it doesn't even make sense...

TheFlak38 · Answer

I think it's funny.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

For girlies, yes.

Blurr090 · Answer

Yep. in my opinion only lol.

admles · Answer

Extraordinarily cringeworthy lol

LazerBean · Answer

Yeah, it is.

Jltakk · Answer

yikes, yeah its definitely copespeak

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Incredibly.

ENGINEERwants69 · Answer

I haven't been in one yet..

WolfDM · Answer

It's sad way of saying I am coping hard.

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds good to me, can I apply the lotion, hehe.

RavVid · Answer

Highly cringe.

DermalPunch · Answer

Yes.

Spade_01 · Answer

Yeah.

Drdeeznuts1132 · Answer

I think it's funny.

itsalyssaagain · Answer

I don’t think so

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Congratulations

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Yes.

In_Trance · Answer

Cringe

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Ya a bit tbh

msc545 · Answer

Yeah, don't!

Guardian45 · Answer

No, just stupid

Joker_ · Answer

yeah but fair enough

jimmy2 · Answer

Skin cancer

Neufd · Answer

Very cringey

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