Will he have remorse and come back one day?

[Anonymous]

so I have been helping this guy move on after his ex dumped him, ultimately I told his parents about his break up. Because I liked him more than he liked me, I left the decision to reject me in his hand
His parents started thinking that we are together. I told my friend to go and tell them that we are friends not lovers. Instead of telling his parents that he wasn't interested, guess what he said? that I have childhood trauma and was harassing him... like seriously? His parents believed him and the undertook procedures to prosecute me. The policeman was like that's not big of a deal, there was no evidence of my childhood trauma so he did not open a case. His father told him to cut all contacts with me.
This became talk of the town, upon hearing so, my family felt humiliated. My sister wrote to him and said that he insulted my family and he should not have said that in public.
Do you think, he will ever feel remorseful? will he ever come back for friendship or a relationship? I gain nothing except public humiliation.

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I treated him with a lot of respect and pampered him a lot for 1 year 4 months.

[sullyk1234]

WOW thats terrible but i will tell you a story no not as bad as yours but its interesting just the same and before i begin i am truly sorry for what he did to you but he will get his in the end KARMA ITS TRUE IT WILL BIT YOU IN THE ASS i met a man last year in a store i go into we talked a couple of months back and forth he would act interested in me but when he's co workers werent around he would follow me around the store talk to me he acted interested but in may we had a conversation at night after 6 pm i asked we he ever be interested he said no im not interested in you and your not my type then why have you look glanced stared at me all this time he never answered me i didn't know this at the time after i left he told the manager that i was harassing him so the manager watched me for awhile and i noticed him doing it whats up with this it was over a month before i went up to the manager and asked what was going on he told me he was trying to but harrssment charges against me i was like you have to be kidding me we never spoke after that but he did stare at me for 7 months after that never said a word but kepted looking at me then my mom passed in October he came up to me to say how sorry he was about it after that he said lets see if we can get along so we started to talk again and then December comes we talk in his department for a bit i heard a co worker went up to him and said is she bothering you i let it slide it happened the second time oh my god he told his co workers that i was bothering him when he told me why dont we get along it has caused trouble at the store with me and him then one night i went into the store right when he asked out a girl then the girl comes up to me telling what he told her about me what a crazy person i was well as much as i like him and everything else i told her what number are you and she looked at me what are you talking about what number am i he talks to a lot of woman in this store your not the only one good luck but if i were you i would make sure with thall the woman he talk to and sleeps with i go and get checked out and walked away i also found out a lot of shit talking he did the end of last year its like walking on nails to go into the store now but he cut his days done to 3 so i go when he's not on im am sorry again and no as much as i have to let this go i didn't deserve it and neither did you good luck and this will come back on him very soon someone who understands

[boggboss]

No he won't come back u are pretty much dead to him

[Asker]

why you say so? my friends said he was feeling regret... he wrote do good and good will come back to you... anyways I had a job to do, I successfully completed it so yeah now I move on happily :D He never defined me and I never needed him.

[boggboss]

You say that yet your asking if he will come back like u want that if u are able to move on happy you wouldn't be asking this and your friends may set he feels regret he burned that bridge with u when he lied to his parents he will never admit that he lied to them about that

[Asker]

I cannot move on happily... actually I asked him to break us up because it was more one-sided, part of me wanted to set him free. He did not lie, I do have these baggage. About the harassment part he did lie a bit but I know he needs to move on and take time for himself... I hope with time he realise he lost a good woman and comes on his own... i'd love to date him.

[boggboss]

I guess its nice to hope but that not how the real world works he will blame u for the situation for telling his parents but meh

[Asker]

4 years in denial post break up is enough!! when enough time will pass by and he grows mature he will realise that I did the right thing.

[boggboss]

Again u are seeing the world though the lenses off a book or movie life song work lole that many people never let go off feeling wrongly done

[Asker]

why would he say do good then... well time will tell. I just hope our path cross again and we are both single then.