Heat of the moment breakup: is it final?

[Anonymous]

Me and my man have many arguments
Even over small things
We have broken up several times
And im always the one packing my clothes when we fight
Him saying "im done, i dont want to see u again, i will not message/call"
Vice versa..
But 90% of the time he calls and tries to come back to me
And we get back together

Then yesterday morning we had a good time just going to a park and joking around
And having a laugh

Then we got home and we had an argument about a tv show
And then he got angry and just broke up with me
"Im done, you always argue every week, im done with your crap, i can't take this anymore"

And then we bickered back and forth
I started packing my clothes
Then he said
"F**k this. I dont deserve this. I dont love u anymore, I dont care about u anymore, go find someone else"

And then he dropped me home
He was still angry

Is this final?
How could he switch to not loving me and not caring about me in 1 second?

No

Yes

[Anonymous]

Most of the things you mentioned are things I used to do with my ex it got so bad that it played a part in us breaking up for good it wasn’t that I didn’t love him because I love him very much I’m just messed up in the head

honestly this is not healthy constantly breaking up It’s even more unhealthy arguing over such little things you need to ask yourself is this something you can continue going through if it is than you both need to sit down and talk to one another and get to the bottom of the deeper root of your issues and why you are both arguing over little things and why you keep breaking up if you can’t figure out the deeper root of the cause of your issues it’s very unlikely this relationship will last

[Asker]

Do you think he actually doesn't love me or its just anger/heat of the moment and doesn't mean it?

[Opinion Owner]

Yea it is possible they can love you

[Anonymous]

You know he loves you, and vice versa. It’s just too toxic. You’re better off apart.

[Asker]

Do you think he means it when he says he's done?

[Opinion Owner]

Who knows, but I hope so. Then you can be done too. One of you has to be stronger and walk away. Unfortunately it doesn’t seem like it’s you and that’s very sad, bc I wish it was. Love yourself more than him.

[Nft_739]

Sweetheart, the question is do you love yourself? Do you know your self worth? Do you see the value you bring to a relationship? Darl’n! He is telling you he doesn’t want you. Repeatedly!
Full stop!
You are a young, beautiful woman.
Don’t settle for bullshit!

[Flower7]

Probably not final this time, as usual, but this doesn’t seem like a good relationship and it sounds toxic for both of you. A permanent break- up would probably be a good idea.

[IncognitoBandito]

Not necessarily