Is he really going to mess around with women after our fresh breakup?

[Anonymous]

Recently had a break up with my ex boyfriend
Been together for about 1 year

He always had trust issues because of his previous ex cheating on him
He got better
Then he started acting up again
So I left him

He kept accusing me of being with another guy ever since we broke up

He kept messaging/calling this week about random things just to talk to me

And then today he messaged me that he's going to see another woman tomorrow
And that he's going to have casual hook ups from now on

**messages below**
Grey - him
Green - me

No he's bluffing/don't think so

Yes he probably will

[Anonymous]

I mean since you guys are broken up the two of you are free to hook up with anyone you want. He’s probably gonna start sleeping around to help cope with the break up (this isn’t a healthy coping mechanism tho) - maybe try no contact for a bit until everything cools down

[Asker]

Yea but why is he telling me?
Im so angry

[Opinion Owner]

To make it seem like he’s “winning” the breakup probably, like oh look how fast I’m moving on from you ha ha

[Arivor]

You know, it could just be that she refused to go out with him, unless he let you know first. It's the same old debate on whether it's better to have your ex tell you or finding out that you were the last to know... and told by one of your friends who are in shock that you had no clue. I think that you would not just be angry at your ex, but at everyone who kept it from you.

[Anonymous]

He's your ex for a reason. No need to keep the contact going, especially if you're both going to keep lashing out at each other. You're no longer tied to each other. He can do his thing, and you can do your thing.

[888theGreat]

Are you really a guy? Sounds like it. If he really has someone lined up so quickly , he has been dipping mr happy with someone else for sometime. It also sounds like he broke up with you , not you with him. I think he wants you to know you are easy to replace.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life the only way to move is forward & as for your relationship it’s yesterday’s news & as for him he’s moving on to a new story & he can mess around with whoever he wants & you can move forward & do the same if you choose to.

[t-8900]

He hasn't had sex in 2 weeks and he's acting like thats a reason for anything? Lol I haven't had sex in like 6 f*cking years and that was by choice. I've had offers for fun, turned them down. Hook up is dirty af. Let him gamble on the STDs and unwanted pregnancies. You go find you an actual quality man, not some child haha. Tell him to gtfo. Wow what a loser!

[ItsMeElliana]

Thissssssssss

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't worry with that. I'm in a relationship and, things are not great because of sex. We only had like 20 times in 2 years. And I miss sex a lot, so if I break up with her I probably will have sex if I can. That doesn't mean I didn't love her. It's not the same level.

I know for many women sex is about deep connection but for men the first thing is carnal pleasure, it's a necessity that's why we masturbate a lot and if we don't our body does it for us in our dreams.

I love my girlfriend but I don't love how sex is with us and if she would be OK with it, I would want an open relationship, just because my sex needs are not being met with her. Everything else is, but sex is not, and really far from it.

My point is, it seams for men sex doesn't have the same emotional value as women have. I would be more angry if my girlfriend lied about something very important than cheating with sex. However I would still be mad because she doesn't have a lot of sex with me.

[DaveJord]

If you been broken up for a week, why wouldn't he if could?

I don't understand the question, he's saying if you care about him then stop messing around and get together or he's moving on.

Nothing wrong with that

[Voodoo69]

It sucks but the two of y’all are not together anymore. Let the food gates open. Move on and enjoy yourself. It’s your life so make the best of it. There is a reason for the breakup so don’t revisit it.

[Slayerrrrrrr]

This type of behavior is very toxic. You shouldn't make threats like that just so your girl respects you

[Asker]

You reckon he is just making threats?

[Slayerrrrrrr]

Yes, used to do that myself thinking that it'd make my girl worry so she'll avoid that but just listening to me. It's childish and unnecessary.

[Asker]

Yeah definitely toxic and childish

Its so annoying because I still love him

[Asker]

Why do you think that tho?
Why is he making threats?
So I dont mess around with other men?

[ItsMeElliana]

probably tryna just get your attention and wants to watch you cry

[jaybee281]

I can't manage to identify if he's British or black

[t-8900]

same!

[ItsMeElliana]

probably bri ish...

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

she sounds like he’s craving sex and if he can get it, he will probably take up the offer to do it.

[sage2021]

Two weeks without sex isn't a very long time. Why does this whole thing about sex?

[AviatorTom]

Why do you care? You broke up with him. Let him do, or not do, whatever he wants.

[ItsMeElliana]

it would probably hurt her tho

[sensible27]

This seems a little toxic, maybe he's trying to make you jealous?

[sensible27]

Why did you break up

[Anonymous]

Trying to make you jealous and get upset. And it is working apparently. So, he wins.

[noohair]

Two weeks without sex is not a hardship, and you are lucky to find out he is an assho! e.

[Anonymous]

He is a cheating manwhore. Stop being nice to this piece of shit. If i was you, i only would insult him

[jaybee281]

Long time no see

[Opinion Owner]

Who are you lol? 😅😆

[jaybee281]

Bond, James Bond

[Opinion Owner]

And i am Jolie, Angelina jolie lol

[slatyb]

Why would you care? Good riddance.

[Hangry06]

He said it already. 2 weeks without pussy

[ImRetarded]

What do you know about pussy?

[Arivor]

@ImRetarded I would say a lot... Ya know? Because she has one. Just saying.

[Hangry06]

@imretarded Can't you see i am a fat pussy unlike you?

[t-8900]

she's got both kinds of pussy in her house. Imma say she knows lots about em.

[WowwGirl]

Of course he will. I suggest you do the same

[Wise4myage]

No I don't.