Does a real-man give her money even after breakup?

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horatiohornblower · Accepted Answer

That would be absurd. Once the breakup occurs. You lose access to each others financial resources.

The only exception being if you two agreed to something financial prior to a breakup which isn't contingent on your breakup. Such as renting an apartment together. Even if you leave. You are obligated to pay your half until the lease is up. Since you both can't simply leave and break a lease.

This also goes for any other legal financial obligation. Like if you got a phone on your exes account. You owe for either your share of the bill until the contract expires, pay off the remainder of your phones value or to pay the early termination fee if you want out.

If your ex loaned you money. You also need to make timely payments to them or pay it back in full.

Kaamraj · Accepted Answer

Nope - A real man respects his own efforts and the money that comes out of it. Giving money to an ex is like paying for services that you are not receiving, it's an insult to your market value.

Medicalbug · Accepted Answer

I didn’t just randomly give money to my ex when he wasn’t my ex, so unless we are good friends and he needs a loan, absolutely not.
Same goes the other way - my exes do not give me money. Unless we are talking some kind of divorce agreement, there is no reason for an ex of any gender to feel obligated to give their ex handouts.

sheikalana · Accepted Answer

Why would he still give money to an ex? That doesn't make any sense to me. You guys broke up you owe nothing to each other.

NHI2017 · Answer

Depends. I made my ex girlfriends car payments for a few months.
after we broke up. And payed it off

Til she got on her feet. Financialy.
After the covid lockdowns.

And i even helped her and her new man move into a condo. Recently

They could make the payments. They just didn’t have the money for a down payment.
wich i took care of, Like 15,000$

they payed me back almost half so far. In payments. Of the 15k

told her not to worry about the. Car its on me.

She is a great girl,
But we just aren’t ment to be. And i wasant gunna let her struggle.
By her self after we broke up.
wish them the best

GreenLanternI0I · Answer

Since you are using term Real Man. I will say that Real Man wouldn't be having breakups or divorces in the first place. He either A. solve the problem as he always does. or B never would get into relationship that he knows won't work out in a long run.

Phoenix98 · Answer

If we break up then I am not responsible for her anymore and have no obligation to look after her in anyway.

But if she actually genuinely needed help I’d consider it on the premises that I wouldn’t be put in the red financially and she paid back the money either in full or via payments.

HellGeist · Answer

Lmao.  No. She can find money on the Streets.  Woman can make PLENTY of money by themselves: 1. Be a strong independent woman and get a usual job.  2. OnlyFans and simps for easy money.

genericname85 · Answer

only if there's disadvantages resulting from the devide to her that stems from the cancelled marriage arragement.
so for example if she didn't further her career cause they decided to have her stay at home or if she hast to take care of childen, then she deserves compensation. if there's no such things, then he shouldn't have to pay her anything.

MJtheCoach · Answer

I like how girls put the two words of real man fun of everything to justify whatever garbage they want the man to monkey around does the real man eat my poop does the real man wash my car does the real man cut off his arm because he wants to show how much he loves me does the real man will pay for my baby my mom my grandma me my uncle my whole family my income my life and my mortgage my school student loan?

Flower7 · Answer

No, that’s not manly at all. The opposite actually!

jshm2 · Answer

Nope, a fake and simp man does.

The reason you've broken up is to disengage. Not to become an ATM. Obviously child support and divorce pay out is a different thing. I'm assuming it's just some hanger on ex you're talking about.

TheLittleInnocent · Answer

Nah unless he wants to which I doubt we would. But he's not obligated to give her money.

KrisPW · Answer

WTH? NO! Why would you even be asking for it from an ex?

XXblack88 · Answer

Only if he borrowed money from her before they broke up. Other wise that's insane

Miristheiss · Answer

Why would someone give someone else money? What for?

Andres77 · Answer

If she's so empowered and equal why is she still leeching off of the guy?

MrPlentiful · Answer

Real men live about 90 years, maybe less. They value their time and dont give women non sexual attention

Slartybartfast · Answer

The family court is corrupt and view men as a source of money. Chances are he doesn't have a choice but to be her slave for The rest of his life.

Seangreen · Answer

women always want equality right? everything equal so then they should equally give themself money and not expect the guy to give them shit how about that one

Wowboi · Answer

Real man isn't defined by money. After a break up she's no longer his responsibility. She is to enjoy her independence

SnakeBoop · Answer

Only if he's paying for any kids he made with her. Otherwise why should he pay for her?

captain_voidwalker · Answer

A real man never gives her money, he gives her a job application and says get to work you lazy bitch

Hypnos0929 · Answer

Lmao. No. If someone needs money from me they need to be on good terms with me or really NEED it. If we break up then you're out of my life unless you're literally about to die

jasco · Answer

no she's a friend so unless she for real actually needed it or child support. he doesn't owe her anything un

worldscolide · Answer

Absolutely not. Women are not entitled to a man's money... PERIOD..

InferiorElegy · Answer

No and why should he, if she can't support herself she should be getting into relationships, she should move home and continue her life as a child.

Anonymous · Answer

Simp, manipulated to submission, would. By real-man you mean slave, who gets nothing in return?

ikEVERYTHING · Answer

Yes, if what you mean is a woman who has mothered his children

007kingifrit · Answer

uuuh no? that's a pretty fucking wimpy thing to do actually

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

I don’t just “give” my girlfriend money and we are still dating

noohair · Answer

If there is a marriage, whatever the Divorce Decree says.

AngelMegumin · Answer

A real man - no. A simp - yes.

boggboss · Answer

Why would a "real man" give her money sorry

Anonymous · Answer

That's a solid no. It shouldn't even be considered.

Anonymous · Answer

I thought women were strong and independent, so why would they need sugar daddy money?

Anonymous · Answer

There's a woman who always gets in trouble 😵‍💫 because of her own actions and regrets later.  You're that woman!

MCheetah · Answer

Nope. But a simp does!

Caunsos · Answer

If that real man is a real simp

cryscrys1 · Answer

It depends if kids are involved

Anonymous · Answer

she ain't getting a dime  she had her chance

haooy · Answer

Hahaha. What do mean by are real man.

Ninani · Answer

Why?

Anonymous · Answer

Pfft. The opinion of a gold digger matters not.

Staximus · Answer

If it's to pay for their kids and that's about it.

nawtee_me · Answer

might as well keep paying for it...

OddBeMe · Answer

I guess if she needs help.

2021biguy · Answer

No a guy doesn't have to.

Guanfei · Answer

No. We don't feed leeches in this house.

whosnumber1 · Answer

depends on the circumstances...

bamesjond0069 · Answer

No. He definitely does not.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Fuck no.

jahaims · Answer

Wtf no

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Nope.

Anonymous · Answer

Only an idiot would do that.

Blackcupcake · Answer

what?

Still-alive · Answer

wassup troll?

dudeinohio · Answer

nope

Twalli · Answer

Depends

Anonymous · Answer

What the hell for?

Slim57 · Answer

Uh No?

Anonymous · Answer

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