Why do attractive woman get cheated on?

[jennifer_bloom]

I know this gorgeous girl who is my friends daughter and her ex husband was always cheating on her so she divorced him.

[ODC2112]

Beauty is just a business card. It gives you the possibility to have a wider choice. However, it gives you the opportunity to find people much more inclined to use you as a trophy woman.
Being beautiful gives you the possibility to find a partner more easily, not to have a fulfilling or stable relationship.
However, there are some pretty heavy sides from my point of view that make being particularly attractive a real penalty.
A beautiful person naturally attracts people, and therefore does not develop certain characteristics that allow him to keep his partner. You keep thinking as a teenager, trorò someone else, so much I am worth on the market.

You don't need to be beautiful to make a relationship work. To make a relationship work, there are other qualities that are needed.
You need to be able to communicate effectively with your partner. It must be understood that one's point of view is not the only one, but being two they are two and could be conflicting with one's own. Also you have to understand that your own or your partner's point of view by not trying to control it. Then the couple must be fed through sex, if this is missing, goodbye relationship.

Unfortunately, many beautiful women have no ability to support such a relationship, because they can always choose and have a greater self-centered orientation.

[Anonymous]

Simple, they choose the wrong men.. Men who them selves will be disloyal. They think more about appearance than the content of their character..

[Subarugirl]

Because physical appearances are probably one of the least important aspects of a marriage. People usually try to justify cheating because their emotional/physical/mental needs are not being met with in that relationship. You don't usually go shopping for cake, when you have it at home if that makes sense.

Regardless, what she looks like has nothing to do with his actions. At the end of the day he chose to be unfaithful. He made that choice, no one else. If he wasn't happy he should have either worked things out or ended the relationship.

[Anonymous]

Looks are a temporary currency to a temporary high. Looks will get his attention but they will not keep him. An attractive woman is a high that wears off for many men after they have attained her. The reason why some men cheat is because they do not know themselves and are still trying to figure out who they are or what they want.

[t-8900]

Well more attractive girls are likely going for more attractive boys and people with lots of options... they can be a problem sometimes. I see a lot of guys that used to be players settling down with average girls. Aside from not being as high maintenance why do you think that is? Perhaps because of less likelihood of vast options to cheat with? Perhaps not as entitled because of pretty privilege? In a culture of no fault divorce what's it like being married to someone with hella options? See with the person I'm with I have complete trust in her because she's an amazing woman and she's faithful. Of that I have no doubt, not ever. But lots of people marry for the wrong reasons like economics and pragmatism. You need to find that deep connection between two souls and you'll just know after. No second guessing, no worrying, you just know.

[globetrotter22]

A guy might have an inflated ego since he got the attractive woman to begin with that. Other women will aggressively be attracted to him. They think he’s “got something going for him” since he got the hot girl. I noticed this crap when I dated pretty girls in the past. I didn’t cheat but it pissed me off that all of the sudden several women came out of the woodworks when I was taken.

OR the guy can just be an aggressive asshole and prone to cheating in the first place. His personality helped him land the hot girl in the first place so why not keep pushing?

More often than not i see women making piss poor decisions to date scumbag guys. They know it won’t end well but they plow ahead anyway because of their “feelings”.

[Mangospacho]

It’s usually the guys who are the least secure who try to get with a woman who is gorgeous. They get with the gorgeous girl thinking it will solve their insecurity but it stays the same or gets worse when they realize they’re only staying with her for shallow reasons. They’ll think the more women they hook up with, the more secure they’ll feel. A lot of times they’ll get with someone less attractive who is either more caring or has attributes they wish their hot significant other had. Basically, you’ll never find a women so attractive that she can’t possibly be cheated on.

[ChiTown33]

Women tend to at the very least date their equal in terms of attractiveness. They always try to date up though. So women seek out guys that are equally highly sought after. We'll it's just supply and demand. She's 1 out of 50 other girls that want that guy. Married or not. If he's not a guy of good character she's just going to have to accept she's going to end up sharing him with 50 other women.
I didn't say it was right. But it is reality.

[GaGirls]

How that's easy; because of the same reason unattractive people get cheated on. If you really want to know, go have coffee with him and ask him why he cheated. Ask him what placed the idea of cheating in his mind then what compelled him over the edge. Be sure to look for emotions in his answers. Lust, frustration, etc
by the way the sex emotion is the #1 indisciplined emotion by man-kind. People act on that emotion more than any over.

Obviously fear trumps it but big fear doesn't come up as much. The motivating center of the brain is turned off when fear comes, thus it is more powerful than positive emotions unless the positive emotions are so trained and habitual they become a superpower.

[akshay1998]

It goes for both men and women that are attractive to get cheated on there are plenty of reasons
firstly attracted people are asked out more oftenly, and due to this there are some jealous and ego problems

Secondly because they get so much attention they are never able to focus on just one person and that's where the choosing go wrong

Thirdly they are the centre of attention at many places and people expect too much from them

Lastly it's not luck that you get the right one but some heart breaks also take you there 😅

[Canuck37]

The type of guy who dates and marries an attractive girl is a shallow guy who goes for looks. Looks fade after time. Meanwhile, men who date average looking women are after more than just looks--they're after character, and that doesn't change.

For this reason, attractive women are more likely to be cheated on than average women.

[Sparks32]

You can get date a super hot girl for the content of her character

[Cherry234]

@Sparks32 I agree with you.

[Anonymous]

There can be a number of reasons. Just because you’re pretty doesn’t mean that’s enough to hold a relationship together, it could be another issue within the relationship. Also, it could just be the guy who’s a scumbag cheater (and he probably is if he cheated instead of just being honest and breaking up.)

Also, sometimes pretty girls are in danger of getting into relationships with guys who only liked them as a trophy or for their looks, or particularly shallow guys. Then there’s also the issue that guys think if they can get one pretty girl, they can get many other pretty girls the same level of attractiveness so they take their girlfriend for granted and cheat.

Also, some “other women” target the boyfriends of pretty girls because of jealousy and envy. So they sleep with them in order to prove something.

It could be any one or more of these reasons, or something else entirely.

[Moose304]

Several years ago I asked a therapist about this phenomenon and she explained it to me this way. You have very expensive cuts of meat at home. You can eat prime rib, lobster, etc, yet you still crave a greasy hamburger from time to time. This is also why some women will cheat down. I know women who were married to Physicians that make 300K a year or more, then get caught boffing some 20 something worthless POS! It's strange and makes zero sense, but in reality, only a cheater understands the mind of a cheater!

[Rob70]

Because a cheater doesn't care about the looks. To them the excitement is more in the act of being with another person and not getting caught. Some don't even care if they are caught it's just the act of having sex with different people.

[FlutteringFeelings]

There’s 1 attractive women and there are 50 more where that came from. Contentment and the longing to commit to one woman will guarantee that she doesn’t get cheated on. Looks won’t save a woman from a man who wants to have his cake and eat it too.

[LoneWolf21]

A person's level of attractiveness has nothing to do with if they get cheated on or not. There is only one true reason someone cheats, and that reason is SELFISHNESS. Every other so called "reason" is just an excuse. All an excuse is, is a BS attempt to shift blame and responsibility to something or someone else.

[normalice]

My guess is pressure to perform. Guys tend to be under a bit more stress when the woman they are banging is hot because they don't want to mess it up. Additionally, hot women tend to be a little harder to satisfy because they expect their attractiveness to make things work out for them. Whereas unattractive women tend to suck and fuck like they have something to prove. So it is easier to be casual with less attractive women.

[Account]

You can be the most attractive woman or man on the planet and still a cheater will cheat. How attractive you are means nothing.

[HighValue]

Cheating has to do with someone's lack of morals. If they didn't want their partner anymore they should have ended the relationship first, not cheated.

[RolandCuthbert]

Because many attractive women have self-esteem issues.

Halle Berry was voted the most beautiful woman in the world. And suffered again and again from guys who cheated on her.

[Louis-1]

in that case most likely that there was a lack of fysical affection such as sex or perhaps emotional affection, could also be that the guy felt that he could get anyone anyway since he landed a super hot chick, and expected that she would be desperate to keep him around regardless,

or perhaps he just had no self controll ergo was pathetic

[Avicenna]

I’ll hazard a guess that it’s because they Are with High-Status men who have an easy time finding women to cheat with them.

[Avicenna]

Sometimes it's better to be with someone who really appreciates you rather than being the flashiest person you could be with.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Looks does not guarantee commitment. It can be a variety of things
1. She's not as involved in sex as he is
2. She's unbearable
3. She makes a habit of ignoring him
4. Bad hygiene

The man/woman in question is still at fault for cheating, however, we can't deny that some people do have a part to play in "encouraging" a partner to cheat. Half the time, the other person never was interested in a commitment and the other half... There never was a confirmed relationship.

[cmarrott]

They think they are owed everything. Guys eventually get tired of it not going both ways and find someone who treats them like they want to be treated.

[cmarrott]

Not that I have cheated. But I have really wanted to a few times.