Two brother like me. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

So my ex and I broke up almost a year ago and his brother started contacting me to hang up. I know it's wrong but I answered his calls and would agree to meet up with him but then I would not show up out of guilt that his brother is my ex.

His brother is aware that I was with his his brother on qnd off for 7 years and he doesn't care. His brother took the initiative to fly out to see me and my ex never did that. When I didn't show he didn't get upset, just said he understood. My ex never once wanted to go out on dates and when I moved states I was the one flying out to see him.

My ex found out that I was talking to his brother and he is heated!!! I low key wonder if I chose the wrong brother.

What do I do in this situation? My ex told me that he wanted to work things out and that I have to choose him or his brother and to not double dip and talk to him and his brother which I understand. I low key feel that his is just trying to work things out because he doesn't want me to be with his brother.

[melnc]

My advice, avoid this relationship and cut everything that reminds you of your ex, including his brother. The situation is difficult and you are making things worse. You don't have to be in a relationship at this time. Instead of breaking things, fix yourself.

[Asker]

I guess you are right

[Guy13]

In the End, Blood 🩸 is thicker than cum…. Eventually, something is going to go backwards and the Brothers will be comparing Stories of “In The Family”. You are in a “no-win” long-term situation.
You think two in the same Friend group grabs one woman stories and cutting up is bad…you have not even seen the tip of the iceberg as compared to Bros 😎 . “IKR…you get it “this/that way too”. Stop trying to get back at someone and get out before you find their Conversation and your pic (s) viral on YouTube….

[Anonymous]

Stay with the brother.
Your ex is o ly acting that way because it another man wanting you which happens to be his brother. They may have a rival against eachother or one or the other feels that way. Men dont like it when you move on either. The ex NEVER takes you out. If I were in your shoes I'd totally chose the man chasing me and SHOWING me he cares and is into me. My boyfriend doesn't take me out at all and I'm trying now to find the words to break up with him

[Asker]

Yeah my ex is butt heart but at the same time he told he would never marry me and who knows maybe his brother will. I want to test the waters but I also don't because of guilt and out of respect for my ex. Plus his brother look just like him and sounds the same it scares me a bit.