Why do men seem to move on so quickly? (Page 2)
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I would thankfully reminisce in the memories of my ex for like 10 years after we broke up. Now if she pops in my head I’m annoyed I have a lover. But “men” don’t move on easy just certain people do. Just find someone trying their best in life & the attitude alone will move you up in the world not only in your love life but other places.
LOL, you're just a kid, and don't know the meaning of a relationship, yet.
You're just full of teeny angst and junk philosophy.
A lot of people only have one lifelong partner and die soon after that partner is gone - usually from a broken heart.
The lifestyle men lead is often what prompts them to seek another partner. As is the case with women.
I’m not a kid I literally work my ass off everyday trying to save for our future and I’ve been in a relationship for over two years now
It's women that usually monkey branch onto their next guy before the former boyfriend is even out the door.
Not gonna lie some women are like that but then again a lot are not
What you view as the right way to behave is right for you not everyone. If I died I'd hope my SO would eventually move on and be happy. You also seem a little sexist and racist in your words which is disappointing.
It’s a joke my dude I ain’t racist my boyfriend is white himself
Research shows that women actually bounce back before men do. Men will try harder to make it look like they do though.
But thats you though. Just because you'll miss him and not get into a relationship right away doesn't mean you should hold him to the same standard.
Just the thought of him with another female is so gross and heart breaking to me my ghost would probably haunt him lmao
What made you start thinking of this?
Lol well kind of because my boyfriend seemed to have moved on really fast from his 3 past relationships even the one who he lost his virginity to he developed a crush super fast already. That made me feel like damn after I die he’s probably going to get into another white girl’s panties FAST 😂
Maybe the emotional connection wasn't there as much so it was easier to move on.
It really depends on the dedication to the relationship. Deaths would probably leave a far worse mark than just a typical end of a relationship.
If it's a typical end I'd buy the 5 months since 6 is the average recovery time but a death would probably last far longer.
If you think about it men fight the same way. They get it out of their system and move on. Woman tend to hold onto things for far longer. Especially grudges.
That isn’t to say men don’t feel things all that time, they just seem better prepared to heal, generally.
mho right here.
@LimitedBenefits101 Thank you 😎
It varies from person to person rather than being gender specific, i have seen guys missing their girl till last breath, it depends on how emotional and how attached a person is with their S. O.
Just be optimistic and enjoy your time with your boyfriend 🙂
We are jus brains with thoughts, we jus think about things rationally and logically, emotions aren't something we really experience much, maybe a little... But we mostly rationalise everything, and "it is what it is" is something I say a lot... If you broke up.. why bother to be upset? What will that solve?
It is what it is... You can't change fate.. we just accept things and move on
Jus seems like a more intelligent reaction to have, and I don't like to dwell on stupid pointless misery, I prefer to be happy regardless of what life throws at me, happiness is a choice ya know and I rather choose that
I still think of a girl that I'm not certain was real, that I only spoke to for a few months and dated for 2 weeks and have been broken up for more than 2 years, I feel like your assumption is inaccurate
Guys process breakups in a different way. Most guys jump into a relationship after the breakup and end up missing their exes later on while most women take their time to forget about their exes before jumping into a new relationship.
There are guys and girls of all types. No pattern of who does what that I see.
Trust me when my first girlfriend broke up with me I cried my eyes out and it took a lot to get over her no one knows how I loved her and even gave her an engagement ring yes it was horrible sorry but not all guys are the same
Well from the OUTSIDE it may seem that way, but from my personal experience I haven't had that quick on to the next... In fact I'll probably win the lottery (my luck) die while being awarded before I ever get to move on so quickly... At the same time HOW on gods green earth CAN women MOVE ON SO EFFORTLESSLY before they are on another MAN arm?
It really depends on the guy some men think women move on too quickly.
Maybe they were really never happy with a relationship to begin with so...
Not true at all. I can't forget someone I like. It's just shown that men don't have emotions. While it might be some for some of them but definitely not all. I know there's some women who are way more emotion-less than men.
It will an inevitable loss for the men who is deeply connected with understanding, intimacy and touch with her, he will loose himself completely and it takes years to build back himself even.
rest of the case, men just doing it to feed the temporary emotions and urges, but men clearly know what lasts longer and what won't, once he knows this , it is easy for him to move on as he never stayed much with it
Missing someone for a lifetime and moving on are two different things. You can miss him forever, but you seriously believe that you'd never "move on"? You're 20 years old - are you going to mourn him the rest of your life?
I guess it depends on the guy. I take way too long. I dated a girl for barely two months but it took me three years to move on and I'm not capable of finding someone attractive, much less date someone.
So it's a subjective thing.
Men seem to move on quick but eventually it seems to hit them. We feel it quicker but start to eventually get over it... kinda!
Least that's how it was with me
That’s true. We have a delayed response with this.