How can I get an ex to trust me again?

[Anonymous]

How can I show my ex he can trust me again? And how can I make him feel comfortable?

[Avicenna]

That's usually not possible. Why doesn't he trust you now? If it's due to cheating, you can forget about a second chance.

[Asker]

He has not said that he doesn’t trust me. He hasn’t mentioned the word trust.
Well we weren’t really in a relationship but a situationship. He went overseas for 3 months and rung me once. So I started seeing someone else. After he got back we stopped talking. This was about 10 years ago though.

[Avicenna]

After that amount of time, it's usually not possible because people have moved on with their lives and it's easier to simply meet someone else you don't have a history with.

[Gent207]

If you are still broken-up
Just leave him alone and let him come around if or when he wants to (up to a month)

[jahaims]

You can't make someone do something. For someone to trust you, you prove you are a good person by being a good person over time. You can't always get trust back. For example if you cheated they would be stupid to ever trust you again.

[Whatever2929292]

I mean... it is your ex... I don't know you could go to consoling together but I say it's over

[TheMajesticKing777]

The chances are slim but trust is earned and it takes time

[dudeinohio]

I doubt anything will work. Taking an ex back. is rare.

[In_Trance]

you can't