My wife and I had been separated for just over a year now, it seems like within the past year she is very easily been annoyed by me. Like super easy and a hundred times easier than before our separation. It was almost like a flick of a light switch she went from a person that I couldn't get enough time with in life to a person that I can't wait for her to leave. For the past year she's taken an apartment about 50 minutes away from me, and we spend some time together since but very little. And then just today in a conversation she mentions that she spoke with a divorce lawyer about an upcoming divorce, and then when she was doing so she busted out in tears. What does this mean when a a woman cries and she's the one that's the initiator of that pain. I mean like for instance if I really wanted something, I wouldn't bust out crying when I announce it. If anything I would have a smile on my face or have a feeling of Happiness inside. So those are one of many things of a woman that confuses me any help on the subject would be appreciated.
Did you try to change any of the things that were annoying to her? If not, then maybe she's just sad that things didn't work out the way she wanted them to. Maybe she suddenly started getting angry that you can't read her mind and know what she wants you to do without her having to ask first. Most divorces initiated by women stem from the women feeling as though they no longer take up free rent in their mens's head like they seemed to in the beginning. Ask her if she needs help with housework, ask her if she wants to go out to dinner more often throughout the week, and see what happens. She probably told you she saw the lawyer today in order to share with you her feelings of how sad she is that things like that haven't improved since she first started complaining.
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She cried because she’s hurting. Just because she initiated the divorce doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt her for things to end. That’s a lot of memories and future plans just gone. It’s gonna hurt regardless of who ends things.
When I broke up with my boyfriend I cried a lot and ran out of my tissues lol. Because I cried so much he thought I would eventually go back to him, but that never happened.
Women just tend to feel the emotions of a breakup right away and then get over it sooner than men.
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Honestly? The fact that you felt a username of “clit licker 420” was a good idea says it all right there. I’m gonna go out on a limb here and say that it’s safe for me to assume that you struggle to respect and value women…? She will see this. Especially a wife! If you were my husband and I saw that username, that would confirm my bad and negative feelings about you making the fear inside very real. A husband shouldn’t advertise himself as that. She probably loves you still. That is why she cried. But she’s respecting herself more and putting self love as a priority to your love. Smart girl! ADVICE: Understand women and how they operate. Women live in fear unconscious and consciously. We need a MAN TO LEAD US and FEND FOR US. You can do that and you have a ride or die for life! A women who will love you even more for your mistakes. Secondly, remember this always:
A relationship is a place you go to GIVE. NEVER is it to be a place that you go to TAKE.
She is probably feeling hurt.
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