Me and this girl don't speak often. We have sort of a history. Been intimate but i'm quite sure she has issues maintaining relationships with people. She is going through a long period of instability.
She called me up the other day quite upset. Trying not to cry on the phone. I asked her what was overwhelming her and she began to speak and then said 'actually, no. I can't speak about this right now. I'm going to go, sorry. Bye. Bye.'
Don't get me wrong. I do care for her a lot and I know she has a big heart. I just don't think it's my place to try and sort this out. She is seeing someone which makes me block her out of my mind. However, I just sent a text a few days later because she reached out first 'hey, you called the other day sounding quite upset. When you feel up to it, give me a call'. Expectedly, no response.
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