Ex says he’s taking time on things?

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This has been a year of me basically begging him to commit to me and he keeps telling me it’s my fault that things won’t work because I keep arguing with him but it’s so hard not too when he’s not even trying with me he ghosts me and ignores me constantly everything is always a priority over me like watching a match to a video game.

Like how can I be calm when I know I’m trying more than he is. All he says he wants to take his time with things so we don’t regret anything.

But I don’t understand I’ve dated him a year and he treats me like a stranger like he doesn’t know me and I’m too needy but how can I act like I don’t know him when I do?

He says I’m not being an adult.

Can anyone help me why he is acting like this with me like he’s well able to sleep with me no problem but not commit to me how is that taking things slow?
Ex says he’s taking time on things?
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