Is there any hope in saving my marriage?

[Hannahbanana94]

After 10 years of being with my husband, he now wants a divorce says he doesn’t like or love me anymore. We have had zero intimacy in a month and he’s been sleeping in another room- that has never happened before. I tried to talk to him and after talking to him he said we should try and fix it. Then next day he went back on his word and basically said nvm I want a divorce. I’m currently 1 month pregnant and already have a 1 year old with him. Even with all the hurtful things he’s saying to me I don’t know why I still love him or want to be with him. He has cursed me. Told me he felt like this marriage was a job and that he never even wanted to touch me he just did it cause he had to. That h e doesn’t love me. Treats me like shit. Has been out at the bars and clubs this past month. And doesn’t care about my feelings. I don't know why I still want to save our marriage or why or how I could love someone that is hurting me so much.

[likelyOK]

I feel kinda bad giving advice bc I have never been married, if he is NOT willing to work on it though I feel there is no saving it, if both people have interest in saving it there is hope. I’m sorry, I’m a single mom and I don’t wish divorce on you, the alternative is staying in a dead marriage where you are just roommates.

Please, what were the signs or problems before the marriage that their were problems?

[HorggleThorp]

If he constantly says mean things to you, then he’s toxic and you need to get out of there. Toxic partners can ruin someone’s life.

[boggboss]

No because he dont want to be married 1 part can't save something that requires both of you to work

[Guy13]

Hope it improves for you. Christmas coming too…

[In_Trance]

there is if you think there is