I have had this happen twice in my life. It was age relationships too where I was older. Both relationships ended very badly. One girl treated me like I was less than human when she broke up (unnecessarily said some very nasty and callous things) other ghosted me after 9 months of dating after a minor argument. Never heard from her again.
I was never led on or lied to either woman. I was sweet and kind as I usually am to women I am interested in. I didn’t try to conceal any of my major faults either.
They might of discovered some of my quirks on way but it wasn’t like I lied about having a criminal record (I don’t) or being married to someone else.
But when they were all acting over the top in love a part of me got nervous and for good reason. They seem to be in love with an image or fantasy. That’s only temporary.
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I try not to leave any stone upturned when evaluating another person. It is good to spend lots of time together and make a point to show weaknesses and strengths. What happened to you is brutal. Sorry to hear it.,
thanks man. It did take me a long time to get over it but I learned are a hard lesson. It’s just not easy to say “hold your horses!” when a beautiful young girl is going off about how she’s so in love with you despite knowing it is most likely a schoolgirl fantasy.
I was actually semi prepared for the ghosting incident. Not how I wanted it to end. However never underestimate what women are capable of when they convince themselves you are no longer valuable to them.
The only thing that matters to them is their emotion in the moment. They quickly forget anything that was positive in the past when you are on their shit list.
Yep. That was summated very well. Good luck 🍀 in the New Year.
No idea, it's important to know someone and not fill in the gaps.
When it’s incoming it’s even more tricky. A part of you doesn’t want to spoil the pleasant moment. But you also know they will have a crash after they indulge the sugar high.