I asked my crush for marriage?

[Anonymous]

I asked my crush for marriage and he started smiling and said no. He said we can be friends but it will be difficult for me so I said it’s fine, silently looked at him and started walking away. He was standing in front of my house but I ignored him and went inside.
Anyways the point is I don’t know how to react, what should I do, I tried to move on start doing my own stuff enjoy with other people but at the end of the day he’s still on my mind. I don’t know how to explain how I’m feeling right now but I’m going crazy.

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He was not just a crush. We were kinda in situationship. My parents are forcing me to marry so i asked him.

[WaterIsland]

Umm. Going from a crush to asking someone to marry you? That is a massive jump…

[Asker]

It was not just a crush, we were kind of in situationship. And now my parents are forcing me for marriage.

[WaterIsland]

Situationship isn’t a relationship. Still a massive jump.

Anyways. You’ll get over it. Take things a LOT slower next time.

I know personally, if a girl asked me to marry her if we weren’t even in a relationship, I’d say no and probably cut off all contact with her. WAY too fast for me. I wanna get to know the person for like years before I get married.

[Asker]

we know each other from last 6 years. And he knows that i love him.

[Asker]

Before i asked him for relationship 2 years back he said yes but it felt like we were never in that phase we were just like frnds. It's way too complicated. I dont know how to explain it. But it is clear that he ain't interested. I just dont know how to move on. Its getting difficult im not able to focus on my job. My performance is getting very low. My manager always scold me.

[WaterIsland]

It felt like you were just friends and yet you asked him to marry you? That’s kinda weird.

You just have to have the willpower to be strong and overcome it. You’ll find someone else eventually. Just focus on your life for now. Stay busy. And if you start thinking about it again, force yourself to stop thinking about it and think about something else.

[es20490446e]

What do you expect to get from someone who doesn't want to be with you?

[In_Trance]

That escalated quickly

[kareka]

Be his friend then let him love u to marry u

[Asker]

we know each other from last 6 years.

[kareka]

Maked out?

[Asker]

yes.

[kareka]

Mmmm and sex?

[Asker]

yeah. If you are going to say he just used me pls just dont say it. I'll die.

[kareka]

No i won't...
But he maybe did it
A girl used me before for 6 years...
My heart got broken..
But i think i got plan to get him back if he loved u oneday

[Asker]

Plan?

[kareka]

Yup...
I think i can help
Would u follow me?

[Asker]

Sure

[TheFlak38]

hahahaha

[Asker]

thanks