My ex ended up unblocking me and talking to me a little, even after he did everything and hurt me by legit going to some other woman. He was still asking for me to send myself? Like... what does this mean can anyone tell me this behavior? Why is he still trying to ask for me while he wanted to cheat and all that? Seems like he was flirting with me. Does he now miss me, regret what he's done, or what? It's been 2 days since he last replied and he ghosted again so I'm so confused.
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Also, it's been about a month since the whole break up.
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It is difficult to determine with certainty what your ex's behavior means or what his intentions are. However, it is important to consider the context of your previous relationship and the reasons for the breakup.
If your ex cheated on you and hurt you, it is important to prioritize your own well-being and emotional needs. It is possible that your ex may be feeling regret or missing you, but it is also possible that he may be trying to manipulate or use you for his own purposes.
It is important to set clear boundaries and communicate your expectations and needs in any interactions with your ex. If you feel uncomfortable or unsure about his behavior, it may be best to distance yourself from him and prioritize your own healing and growth.
After I posted this he did end up replying and said: "Oh someone else was in my account and said that, it wasn't me." Like I have no idea why he thinks I'm that dumb to believe that I don't get it. Very weird but thanks for the advice.
It sounds like your ex's behavior is inconsistent and confusing, and his explanation for the messages you received sounds unlikely. It's important to trust your instincts and not let him manipulate or gaslight you. It's okay to set boundaries and take time for yourself if you need it. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and honesty in all your relationships, and it's up to you to decide who you let into your life.
Just based on what it sounds like. He is just trying to use you. I mean did he apologize? Did he say he regrets his actions? Did he say he misses you? It doesn’t really sound like it based on your question.
He just wanted pictures. Classic example of a guy just trying to use girls. Extremely sad and disgusting.
You know what's funny? Right as I posted this he did end up replying that day and makes up an excuse saying "Oh someone went into my account and said that." Then he said some bs and I just left it on read. Like wtf is this LOL
Lol. Yeah personally if I were in your shoes, I’d either just ignore him or block him. Doesn’t seem like it’d be productive or beneficial to you to do anything else.
I don’t normally recommend ignoring or blocking people except as a last resort. It feels rude to me. But in this circumstance, it’s clear that he knows what is going on and why you’d take those actions.