My ex-boyfriend said he was in love with someone else and he left me for another girl. I believe that he will regret it but I'm not sure what to do for now. Do you think he will ever regret it?
He may regret it, he may not. Odds are he left for what seemed to him to be a valid reason. More than likely he will not return.
My advice would be to mourn the loss for a while, then pull yourself together and meet other people. The more social you are, and the more genuinely and honestly you are about yourself, the easier the transition into the next phase of your life, a new relationship, will be.
Talking with friends and accepting invitations to gatherings has worked for me in the past. It's hard to pick one's self up, dust one's self off, and get back into the fray. Going out and meeting people is the only way I know to meet people.
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What do you mean you’re not sure what to do for now? You move on. Or are you hoping he will regret it then come back to you, his doormat who he can easily toss aside again if he wants to cause he knows you’ll take that kind of abuse? Phuk him! He may or may not regret it but even if he does why wait around for him? Why stick around to be someone’s second option? Have some respect for yourself if that’s what you’re holding out on.
Im sorry this happened. No one deserves to go through this, and I can't imagine how you are feeling.
Its his loss in the end.
Maybe he will regret this, or maybe he won't. But if he doesn't, that just shows that he didn't value you or your relationship, and you should find someone who does, someone who is willing to treat you like the god/goddess you are.
Don’t let that matter… even if he does regret it some day, that’ll be on him. And whether he does or not doesn’t mean anything bad about you, just that you weren’t meant to be. Find someone else to give your time and attention to, don’t waste it on him… I know break ups can be hard, but you’ll get through it and be happier for it in the long run..
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Don’t expect or wait for him to come back. He left you for someone else because you weren’t enough for him. So he shouldn’t be good enough for you too. Don’t take him back. He can leave you again
He may think about you, sometime in the future, but I doubt he will ever regret leaving you and moving on. It's important for you to do the same.
If he left you for someone else then they don’t deserve your time and thought. He sounds like a douche bag if he really did that and by doing that he did you a favor.
You deserve someone who values you in their life and not someone who thinks that they can replace you like your some kind of merchandise.It doesn’t matter if he will regret it or not.
He’s an asshole and you shouldn’t waste your time wondering what his best options are.
He proved he wasn’t your best option. That’s all that matters.
Time for a better one.I know it's hard, and nothing anyone says here will really help... But you will eventually learn that he wasn't worth your time and energy that you're feeding into it, right now.
You are worth more than this!!
Heal from his betrayal and find someone who loves you for you!! ❤️🫂Yes he very well might regret it. But you have to let it go now because you are not his number one and never will be. He had you and knows what you have to offer yet he chose someone else. Get someone better who will love you completely.
What does it matter if he regrets? As a result, he doesn't want you anymore. Stop thinking about someone who doesn't care about you.
Why would he? There are a million more just like you and out of the million, there will be 2 or 3 he will meet and can select if, in the unlikely event, he decides you were a better choice.
It's possible.
But it depends on why the relationship ended, and the type of person he is and the type of girfriend you were to him.
I can't figure out why girls are so hung up on the guy missing them, or regretting how they ended it.
Rarely do we regret breaking up.It doesn't matter if he does or doesn't , that's his loss or gain , don't dwell , simply move on and make him the one who looks like a dick.
Im sorry that you are currently going through this. Be strong. He would, they always come back once they realize that the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Don't take him back if he comes.
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Best not to worry yourself with it. Otherwise, you'll become consumed by it.
for your sake, let's hope he doesn't. because you don't need someone like that in your life. would you really get back with someone who chose someone else over you? i wouldn't.
He may regret it, he may not regret it. Should you care either way?
Lose the weight, dye your hair either platinum blonde or jet black and get a boob job.
Get a hotter young stud boyfriend like me and he'll definitely regret
He might. I wouldn’t wait for him to come crawling back to you - he already left you once. If he doesn’t come crawling back immediately, he’s not worth taking back.
Probably not. And even if he came to, who cares?
Yes, he will rue the day he let someone as awesome as you get away.
If the other one is young and hot he won't regret anything.
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