He’s so heartless, he just goes on like he done nothing to me?

[Anonymous]

I wish my ex knew how hurt he was to me, its not fair, he didn't feel my pain, he didn't feel my hurt when i found he had two dating apps behind my back, or when i told him how it made me feel and that i cried so hard about it, he told me thats not healthy. he doesn't know how it fucking feels being blamed for things that didn't ruin our relationship at all (my anxiety, anxiety attacks, even my living conditions he didn't want to be with me or stay by me during that not even because of health issues or my upcoming surgery), i asked what the real reason was instead of insulting me with all of that and it was “i dont know what type of relationship i want” and he just kept repeating “were over” “im leaving” over and over again, his true colours showed he was a different person and was so angry? like he didn't even look at me he just walked out the door. you hurt me so much that Sunday and i dont give one freaking damn you’re never allowed near me again

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my heart is literally breaking im so sad i just feel so betrayed

[MementoMori777]

It will heal and build character, it's only painful because you have a heart, that pain is normal, it will heal and you'll feel better, you don't need him, if anything he was holding you back.

[Asker]

Its gave me a lesson anyway and changed my perspective its no different from a childhood bully to be honest he just seemed like a bully that day talking down to me and making it out to be my fault, like the person you love the most doing that to u? its so painful. you’re right i clutched onto a bag of rubbish this entire time all it was was a burden holding me back he just disguised himself so well and lied and manipulated me

[MementoMori777]

Yep but you are free of that now, imagine how bad it would've been if you would kept getting bullied, lied too and manipulated, how unhappy you would've been, you loving someone is good, you have a pure heart and that's not bad, shame on him for taking advantage of that but you keep your heart pure because he's fucked up but your aren't.

[Asker]

Thats so true, like why lie about being there for me and telling me how much of a burden i am the next, thats not love!!! i wish i could let that sink in.. why should i give my love to someone like that, thats not who i am, id rather have someone with a kind heart have all of my love. all you do is love people and there's sick sick people out there like him so heartless, it will come full circle, i believe in karma.

[MementoMori777]

Even if you didn't believe in karma, God is vengeful so this dude would get his anyways, and yea you got it on point, why love someone who won't love you back, you did the best choice, because now you can find someone that will love you and treat you like a queen, not this disgrace of a man, don't let him effect you anymore, he's not even worth being in your mind tbh.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Move on.

[Asker]

Easier said than done but i like ur comment is motivating in a way like a fk u to my ex, like he's not worth it