I almost got married once, and I just knew she was 't right for me. I made the mistake of accepting her cheating. I remember one particular afternoon, I was at work and she called me and told me not to come home right away because she had a guy coming over she was going to have sex with.
My whole life, I really didn't think I could do any better than these types of girls. I still wonder maybe it's something I did or said to make these girls cheat on me, but yeah, I made the mistake of staying with them and accepting it.
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Sticking around too long.
loving my ex that said he loved me but he was cheating on me for 2 years so telling him i loved him and being there for him after a year through sick times i would just go up to see him to make him feel better his mum always asked me to come up if he wasn't well because me and her knew i was the only one who could make him relax but now he has 2 girlfriend's he's cheating on one so saying i loved my ex was the biggest mistake i made rouned 3 years of my life
Not realising my ex was a pervert. Just because he was young and good looking. His behaviour was not normal regarding sex. I was too young to stop it.
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I gave her a second chance when I knew she didn’t deserve it.
It's a mistake I still make. I know when a woman talks about a problem, the best thing to do is just listen. But as a guy, and as an engineer, I sometimes cannot resist the temptation to try to solve her problem.
I tolerated bread crumbs because I loved them so dearly, I poured from my proverbial cup and looked after the best interests of the ones I loved right in front of me instead of the one that needed me the most (me). I forgot that fighting does not have to end in a break up, to communicate effectively and identifying issues is fine but working towards fixing them is important too. There’s regret and grief there. Huge amounts of it.
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no big mistakes, not on my last relationship
but on one of my first ones, yes...
very wrongly assumed that if she had told me about something, she also might told her very best friends... oh hell, I was wrong about that lmao
very wrong, I got in trouble for assuming that much, lol Trying to start a relationship with a girl who doesn’t wear panties, who supports the LGBTQ, has liberal beliefs, and not a very strong Christian. She doesn’t wear panties because she’s a witch. Witches never wear panties so they can get a better grip on their brooms.
Got married to the person I thought was right for me but turned out to be the opposite. In my 20's getting married twice was a mistake and now I feel I shouldn't try again. Now I'm 31 and single, I still have many men offer themselves to me but it's something I don't want to do again. I wish I never gotten married in my 20's especially twice.
I didn't terminate it when I should have. I realized the relationship was not going to change, and my partner was not going to change either, and I continued with it, because it was one where we traveled and did a lot of activities together and shared the cost, and that allowed us to do more, than most, but that did not outweigh the downside of things and I did not see that clearly.
Not knowing when to leave. Honestly when I give my self to someone I give my all and sometimes I don't know when it's become unhealthy for me I'm loyal to my own fault
I only had one real relationship.. and two whatever ones.. The real one went on way too long because I didn't want to hurt him and I really wanted to stay friends but he said if we break up we are done forever that went on for 12 years... The other one I was seriously in love with but he didn't love me he said I would probably do to him what I did to my husband and he was mean to me and wouldn't commit to me. I guess the mistake with him was I never made him feel secure because he didn't make me feel secure either.. I really regret him the most. As for the last guy their was no love even though he said he did.. I just don't know how to talk to him without being rude and I guess vice versa.. lol I guess I just hate guys too much... cuz I can't seem to capture one I really like.
I put myself in a position where I trusted her too much. I doubt I'll learn from that mistake though as you can't carry that over to the next person.
Not making a joint vision. It's literally the only mistake someone can make in a relationship. That and not remaining unwavering to that vision. @Paris13
I thought that just maybe the opposites attract theory could actually work.
It doesn't.
Being with someone i didn't really like till i realised im only with him because he's the first ever person to ask me out and tell me im cute.
Believing she was too good and too kind to do anything hurtful.
Getting married before living together.
You really don't know how compatible or incompatible you are until you live with someone.
I never should have stayed in it for as long as I did
My biggest mistake was not paying enough attention to her. Being a workaholic I was always working and not spending enough time with her
I was so worried about all their stresses and problems I forgot to look out for myself. I was unwilling to break up with her even though I knew I should because I knew I could take the heartbreak better than she could
Starting the relationship in the first place. I guess THAT would count as big?
Not putting my foot down to stop my boyfriend's porn addiction ealier. Wish I waited later to have sex with him.
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