My ex (24M) broke up with me (23F) and I’m thinking of writing him a letter?

[Anonymous]

My ex and I had a huge fight a little more than a month ago and he said he needed time to process things. However, I gnatted a lot and 2 weeks ago he broke up with me, saying he has felt tortured and can’t stand it anymore, he said he doesn’t know how to make himself care about me again. I stopped texting him and decided to go into NC for some time, but we saw each other a couple of times at the gym. I’ve apologised many times but I feel like he will never forgive me (I made a lot of mistakes and I deeply regret them). I told him I’m gonna change and eliminate my negative traits but he doesn’t seem to believe. I’ve decided to send him a letter maybe a month after the break up, saying how much I love him, how much I’m sorry, etc, etc (I’ve already written it and I think it’s very emotional and poetic and it will make him feel something) but I’m scared of what will happen. Do you guys think sending a letter is appropriate in my situation?

Tl dr - My ex (24M) broke up with me (23F) and I’m thinking of writing him a letter. Do you think that’s appropriate?

[Anonymous]

Honey, please don’t send that letter. I understand you feel regret and guilt but begging like this is just so unbecoming and even desperate at this point. It’s great you’ve acknowledged your mistakes, so use this situation as an opportunity to better yourself so that you can bring a healthier version of yourself into a new relationship. He is not interested in rekindling things, and I think you’ve got to accept that, and take your time to start healing. Bombarding him with apologies and sorrows is just too much.

[Shamalien]

If it was mostly your fault and you want to apologize and get back together then sure. What did you do to him?

[DarkWinterNights]

Not a good idea. He’s distanced himself and emotionally disconnected from you. This won’t fix that.

[Dkc123]

You're obsessed.. n hooked