How many times has your heart been broken?

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Nawlins34 · Accepted Answer

Twice, both were my fault and very good learning experiences.

1st heartbreak - I didn't appreciate that woman, how good she was and how often you come across women like that to her credit.

I cheated on her (again, not appreciating what I had, being privileged)

But despite that, I wasn't crying or anything, it had ran it's course.

And I learned the lesson because I no longer cheat and I appreciate what the woman I have now and what we have together.

2nd heartbreak? My fault as well, it was the doozy for me because I had to look in the mirror and acknowledge what I was doing wasn't working. I cried for months on that one and made real changes in my life, it hurt at the time, but I grew the most off of that break-up.

No regrets. All lessons learned.

Joker_ · Accepted Answer

once or twice

Dysney1023 · Accepted Answer

3 :( but! Every time I got a little bit stronger. It’s easy to lose faith at this point. And I have. But also it can be reignited. Don’t put limitations on yourself just because you have been hurt before. Love can come back around. ^_^ and love is the most beautiful thing. I am grateful I have the opportunity to miss someone. Even if they are an ex.

Thot_Stomper · Accepted Answer

What's this heart you speak of?

Pinay_ako · Answer

I didn’t count but it was more than once

AviatorTom · Answer

A few times, but I've always recovered.

ohsheeT · Answer

For me
just one time.
Once you go through it one time you don't ever want to go through it again
So you don't. You understand it a lot better and even though that feeling is an emotion you still control that emotion.
You're the only person on the inside of you that can control it it can make you feel happy or pain.
Nowadays I'm not so worried about a broken heart
But what I am worried about is I have a crack in my ass I don't know if anybody else does but I don't know if I should go to the doctor and get that looked at or what

Leapfrog00 · Answer

Ten that I can count. I've had bad luck with girls. So much bad luck! The girl I lost my virginity to cheated on me. Then there was this one girl named Anna that I was really getting close to, she was so kind and caring, but she wanted something more, so she ended things. I used to write her poetry and talk about how beautiful she was.

My ex-girlfriend, Kelly, we were going to get married and on our wedding day, she ran off with another guy. That one really hurt. I really loved her. I used to put poems in her pocket before she left the house, so she could find them later on. I don't think I'm ever meant to find love. Everything to always fine at first, and then they do something to hurt me!

Khathutshelo · Answer

The first time was when I was in highschool and seeing a girl from another school. One day, we agreed to meet after school, but I was late and by the time I got there she had gone with another guy, and they started dating.

The second time was when a girl a was seeing slept with my brother when I was away at university.

The guy did it again a year later to another girl I was seeing.

The latest was when I was pursuing this girl finally told me that she'd never LOVE me no matter what. Anyway a year later she was pregnant and rejected by the baby dad.

That's me

Finchie40 · Answer

A few times by giving my heart to selfish girl’s that only really cared about themselves that didn’t know what it meant to be in a relationship, , it was definitely a learning experience for me to realize I will no longer give my heart to a girl that is constantly selfish

molonski2 · Answer

You know honestly it must have happened but I can't think of when , I remember being rather distraught around the age of 23 or 25 , and as is with that that I often read here , was of course the very best thing that could have happened , so when older and looking back its really hard to say if it happened EVER !
Not saying , I didn't make some really poor choices , but did well to get out of most of them , certainly was not heartbroken when my marriage broke up.

Reem12345reem · Answer

0 heartbreak so far , I don't know if my 2 hr crying session is considered a heart break but I don't know why i cried, i didn't even love him , the fact that he didn't love me anymore hurt bc I wanted HIM to love ME 💀 but I was the one who ended it in the first place 💀

elontesler3 · Answer

my first girlfriend left me at 13, stabbed me and cheated. my first ex wife left me a week after our marriage when i was 18, she cheated. my girlfriend after cheated. then i dated a girl for 10 years and she cheated and left me. i just got dumped by a girl i dated for 3 years last week, she left me to cheat. im getting too old for all this nonsense anymore. i just want a happy life, im finding that through myself and myself only from now on

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Once. I've mended and kinda stitched it back together with random hookups and 2 other long term relationships over the past 20 years, but none of that came close to what I had.

menina · Answer

I've had some crushes, but I'm not counting on them. I assume you're only talking about relationships. If that's the case, then my heart has never been broken because I've never been in a relationship.

abc3643 · Answer

I have had my heart broken a few times, but twice were monumentally devastating.
The first of those was my first broken heart. It took me about 2y 8m to recover.
However, the second occurred on Sunday 12 JAN 1992 and I never recovered.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i've been apprehensive to ask you about this myself.

Ezra_lila · Answer

Many times already. But despite of being heartbroken I learn my lessons and help me to be a better person too. So I still look on the brighter side of it and didn't regret meeting those people who gave me pain and sorrows

Anemone978 · Answer

Once, I only actually loved one person. So I never want to feel that pain ever again so I will never love anyone whole heatedly ever again except my kids.

MementoMori777 · Answer

Once, I'm guessing you are dealing through one now?

JHNS98 · Answer

Only once, and indirectly. I was into   ten years ago, but she was with another guy. Took six months for me to shake the worst pain, but this affected me in some way until very recently. By the way, she and him are still together to this day.

Kabluie · Answer

I don't like to be reminded how many times. I just remember years ago it took months to get out of that brokenness, and it wasn't even anyone's fault. It goes to show that living life to the fullest is worth the risk of heartbreak.

ZackBan · Answer

Enough times that I eventually stopped putting it back together. I'd happily fall in love again but it seems to me I'm no longer capable of it the way I used to growing up

Zatsuma · Answer

I could say lots but in my mind at the time they were heartbreaking, now looking back I snort and see how silly I was mistaking lust for love. I've really only let one guy break me.

J0sie · Answer

About 5 times but by the same idiot. He kept promising marriage then would leave me like I was nothing to him. took me a while to learn my lesson

Fireguy17 · Answer

Really crushed probably 3 or 4 times. After a couple times I just stayed single for a long time. I would date occasionally, but nothing serious, and it wasn't hard to get laid so I was fine.

papiC21 · Answer

Was with this girl for 9 years starting in high school and she decided to wait till a month ago to show she's a cheater, that's the only one though! lol

Smashingdoozy · Answer

First time by my birth parents. A few times by relationships. Again by my birth family.  💔👍

Nikki1989 · Answer

None. I refuse to let that happen to me.

josefff · Answer

I have lost the count... I can't even feel whether it's broken by another person or not because I got along with the feeling that comes with it

DannyUk2017 · Answer

I'm sorry how does a heart looks/feels like? As i'm having a prope Stone in my chest, no hammer can break it! 💪

FreyaRed · Answer

Never. I'm a heartbreaker according to my friends, it seems it makes me immune to this particular emotional condition

strateguy632 · Answer

from nearly 100 break ups, only 3. and first at age three ouch. i carelessly broke her heart and felt huge empathy.

Alli39 · Answer

Just once, but it was a platonic connection rather than a romantic one. Still managed to be devastating though 😩

Sonorous · Answer

Yes, but inadvertently. I was always into girls out of my league. Always had unrequited crushes.

EmmaMary · Answer

Never truly broken, but hurt on two occasions.

panda2712 · Answer

Once for a proper heart break and it was over my best friend leaving me

Bricealan · Answer

Two or three, most of the time when I was young and did not know how to deal with it.

Spiritofn · Answer

About 3X. It hurts... I've never been overly desirable except for a moment in my existence before having a government complication.

ChiTown33 · Answer

25 times. "94"-"95" and "99"-"2023" I don't expect this season to be any different.

Avicenna · Answer

Too many to count

Raaj4you · Answer

Many times, at school, college, in love, in exams, at job interviews, in relationships, etc. But I am a full grown strong man now. Big or petty issues don't bother me anymore.

sheikalana · Answer

A few times. Can't say how many never bothered to count.

Writteninthestars · Answer

A few times, now I’m kinda in detached mode. I care about my fwbs but I’m not in love or anything

dolemite58 · Answer

i’ve never had trouble moving on so i wouldn’t say i was really “heartbroken” ever. There’s billions of women on the planet and ur belly aching cuz one don’t like you, who cares 😂

Anonymous · Answer

Once and then after that everything else was just disappointment. But after the first one nobody could break my heart anymore, the most a man could do was make me disappointed

normandi · Answer

Really no such thing as heart broken you let your happiness depends on anyone you gonna lose it enjoy a relationship while it last.. once it is over it is over next

Rangers · Answer

Twice, but the second one didn't hurt as much because I didn't have a full heart at the time

boobliker · Answer

4 really bad but maybe 10 to 12 more lightly

zero444440000 · Answer

two times. both form the ones i loved dying...

Blueeyes81 · Answer

5 that really cut deep. A few minor ones that I got over fairly quickly.

Luopio27 · Answer

Been rejected by all the girls I've ever liked more than aa a friend.

loveslongnails · Answer

Never seriously, though it seemed so at the time. A few times, maybe 3 ?

Kacka · Answer

ones, sadly it was my one and single i have. no spares here

OddBeMe · Answer

Everyday my love on Gag isn’t reciprocated…(breaks down in tears) (faints)

REX_JSWL · Answer

Well not till now  I married the girl after 9 years of relationship So I am good till now

nudeNhorny · Answer

Only once was enough for me to replace with a stone.

Fuentes · Answer

Maybe once but I fell in love with money it doesn't break my heart anymore.

Jerre · Answer

One time! When my fiancé was killed in an auto accident more than 20 years ago.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

A few times happens to us all makes us stronger and know what we want and need

Guanfei · Answer

Not that much, 3 or 4 times, but it's pretty hard because when I love, I love completely.

justabuddy · Answer

It seems like a lot. But I guess it's made me stronger.

Jesterteddy66 · Answer

Multiple times by a lot of people I trusted or love.

madhatters4 · Answer

twice. two times too many

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