Why won’t he block me?

[Anonymous]

My ex used to block me after every petty thing or fight since we started dating. He dumped and blocked me for no reason for a couple of weeks but we got back together.

We gotten into a fight and he never blocks me anymore. I asked him why didn’t he block me and he says I did nothing wrong. We gotten into fight recently and I’ve even said something disrespectful about his mother and he still doesn’t want to block me.

[Oliverlogan263]

That's hella sus that your ex ain't blocking you after fights anymore. Maybe he likes the drama? Wants you chasing after him or something?

I mean he broke up with you outta nowhere before too right? Seems like he's playing games.

If it was me, I'd call him out. Like ask straight up what his deal is, why he keeps you unblocked if you're supposedly broken up.

Could be he's not really over you yet either. Or maybe just wants you as backup in case his other options don't workout.

I dunno man, I'd be careful messing with someone who plays those kinda mind games. You deserve better than that bro.

Maybe distance yourself, stop reaching out so much and see if he starts coming around tryna talk to you. If not, then forget that clown. Plenty other girls out there who'll respect you for real!

[Anonymous]

better question is why do you keep getting back together with him?

maybe he grew up? because i think it's petty to block i guess.

[Anonymous]

“I asked him why he didn’t block me and he said I did nothing wrong”, girl he literally told you, what more do you want?

[Asker]

That time I didn’t do nothing wrong but this time I did and he even gotten mad about it

[Opinion Owner]

Why is him not blocking you so significant? Do you think it means he doesn’t want to lose you or wants to get back together? Just wondering why it’s so notable for you. He said you didn’t do anything wrong so to me that’s why he blocked you before and that’s why he hasn’t since. You feel wrong he may not feel it’s worth the trouble.

[Asker]

Because he’s blocked me before in the past with no issues even when I’ve done nothing to him. It was his favorite thing to do. I didn’t know we were broken up until I texted him and I was blocked. I didn’t do anything.

I just don’t understand why he’s hesitant now back together.

[Opinion Owner]

Why aren’t you more concerned with how toxic this shit is? Doesn’t matter why he hasn’t blocked you again, it’s the fact you anticipate it, accept it, and wonder why it hasn’t happened. That’s not a healthy, loving relationship it’s two emotionally damaged individuals with bad communication skills hurting each other.

[Opinion Owner]

You should be single and get therapy, work on yourself rather than accept this mediocre lame excuse of a relationship.

[Anonymous]

So he can use you for sex later on.