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This is a tricky one. On the one hand, your ex reaching out and saying to catch up when you're back could mean he wants to try again. But it's hard to say for sure. A few things to think about:
- Why did you guys break up in the first place? If it was a bad breakup, I'd be wary of getting sucked back in.
- His message could just be being polite since you're going away. Catching up doesn't mean he wants to date again necessarily.
- You need to think about if you even want to get back with him after things ended before. Are those issues really resolved?
- I'd suggest taking it slow. Message him when you're back like he said, but don't get your hopes up. Feel things out and see how the catch up goes before assuming it means more.
- Make sure you're over him too before opening that door again. Don't just do it cause you miss him if deep down you're not fully moved on.
Follow your gut on this one. Proceed carefully and protect your heart first here. Don't get played twice! With time and distance you'll know better where his heads at and if it's a risk worth taking.
I flipped a coin and it landed on heads I assigned heads to mean no
Possibly, but what he would be wanting exactly is up for debate. The holidays are lonely for a lot of people and prime time for ex’s to link back up since they can’t stand being alone around now, when we see couples the most.
Nah, sounds like just regular normal friendly convo to me.
You don't need to take him back, either. You can be just friends as exes.
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When will people learn to completely move on? that is the better question...