Why do men ignore your existence after a breakup?

[Anonymous]

i cut off contact with a guy i dated because i felt like 1. i was still attached (especially when we talked each and every day, even after the breakup), 2. he could never show me his emotion (he'd tell me that he had strong feelings for me and did not want to lose me and my friendship, but liked his ex's bikini picture, ignored me when his boys are present, and text me later like nothing happened). he did warn me that with him it's either too much or not enough emotion but I quickly realized that i need to be reassured in relationship.

anyways, i cut off everything, but still hoped to be cordial when we see each other (while we're with our friends), but he acts like i don't exist at all?

How do men process/act after a breakup?

[Lynx122]

I just don't want a bunch of negative emotions and uncertainty in my life. If it's already decided that it's not working out or if I'm just at a point where I've had enough, it's a ot easier to just move on with my life. After a few months I'm not even thinking about this relationship anymore because I'm living my life but if this person keeps contacting me and keeps pretending like maybe there's a chance it can still work out it keeps reopening the wound and it can't heal. There's no benefit to a man in playing these games. Women like to do this. Women like having sex with their ex and things like that but it's not for me. Either I'm in a relationship and I wanna make it work or I'm not. There's no in between. If you blow your chance then it's over there's no rewind button or loop button or whatever.

[Anonymous]

Lol you cut him off but you expect him to still interact w you like normal? Funny women have a hard time comprehending things. I broke up w him why does the talk to me? I turned him down why his t he interested anymore? I broke up w him now he moved onto a new girl, how can he do that?

[FreyaRed]

1. they play the insulted prince
2. they try to appease you and they think it's just a show
3. they make you responsible for everything in an angry way
4. they wait a while and stalk you in locations where you usually go out
5. they accept it's over

[rigmarole]

Because you don't exist anymore... It sounds to me you want all the perks of a relationship without any of the responsibility. You want him to treat you the way you want to be treated by a lover, while you treat him like shit. You're very selfish. You wanted to move on, so he moved on. It's done. Stop playing games.

[MicroViewer]

I wood not expect his pecker to show up after "cutting off".

I suggest getting a restraining order and trying again.

[Anonymous]

This.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/-UB0owFSNw8

[Fireguy17]

because despite what he said he has moved on.

[Unit1]

Give us a reason to not ignore an ex.