My boyfriend four years always wanted to break up or leave when things got rough almost like he threatened me with it. I always begged him back every time I never give space I always wanted to fix it right then and there and he was the avoidant type didn’t wanna talk about it type leave me alone type. This time he wanted to leave after I brought up an issue that I have with him but this time I stopped begging told him if you want to do this go for it I’m gone we’re done I never done anything that terrible for you to sit here the way you do go for it. Any thoughts on what that can do to him since he’s used to me being the begger and resolver?
It seems like space is exactly what is needed since it was never an option that was acceptable to one of you and it is incredibly important for a successful relationship. The same can be said about how to tactfully and respectfully discuss issues and having meaningful progress made, arguments are not the way to resolve anything.
In my experience I've stopped all contact with many girlfriends. One I felt she deserved a better partner so I removed myself from her life to let her grow. Another cheated on me so I broke off all contact. The last one was immature, directionless and selfish, I did not even say goodbye.
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Q. Has anyone ever stopped all contact with an ex?
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Stop Enabling Him to Continue to Avoid the Issues!!! That is No Communication even if You Remain Friends. He is Not Worth It. xxoo
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We got divorced. Our child grew up. I have no reason to ever see them again and I hope I don't.
She chose to slice my face up.. Then later on threaten my wife (new girlfriend at the time) and her family.
Sounds as though he doesn’t like you as much as you like him.
It can be tough, but moving on completely feels better in the end, I think
I have. They don't contact me either.
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