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Or that is low and you will never do that you are much better and smarter than that?
I have a 28yrd old cousin who like 3 months or 4 mos ago separated from her husband. They dated for like 7 years and got married in 2019 and separated this year like 5 months ago but it seems as husband and wife they were separated much longer and since the family did not know about their status, they still attended family gatherings together pretending they were still a couple and it was all fake, the reason the family did not notice anything wrong. But during the family get togethers they did act strange but noone thought or noticed that was strange.
For instance at gatherings each one arrived separately and left separately and the excuse for the husband to arrive at different times than her wife was he had work to do or attend work related things the same excuse when he left first at family gatherings, always was "a work related issue" but noone thought or even notice that was strange. Unfortunately the daughter followed the same steps as her mom (my first cousin) she got separated from my cousin`s dad when she was very young, the difference here is that this cousin did not have kids with her husband.
Anyway, some family members started to noticed something about my cousin husband behavior and why? Because the dude posted things on FB that people could see. The husband as stupid as he was, started to post FB stories (those stories that dissapear 24 hrs later from the account) with photos of him and another woman. That is how I noticed somethign was wrong. It seems the mother did not even know her daughter was having relationship problems, because her daughter kept things from her, even if mom and daughter had always been super super close. So the dude started to post photos of him and this other lady several times.
SO when things im sure got out of hand for this dude because people started to ask him
More or less he said on that public text that due to rumors and gossip he had gotten from people he needed to straight things up and indeed he was already in another relationship and already made a new life with
It seems my cousin is started to do the same thing as her ex, posting photos on social media of her and a male friend at the beach. My cousin is at the beach and she posted a photo of the 2 of them next to each other smiling.
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Woah, that's crazy drama with your cousin and her ex! What a jerk that guy is, flaunting his new girl all over social media before even splitting up officially.
I can understand why your cousin would be beyond pissed. But personally, I don't think stooping to his level is the move. That just breeds more negativity. Your cousin has too much class for that, you know?
The best revenge is living well. She should stay focused on herself, spend time with people who really care about her, and just keep doing her. While he's out there acting a fool, she'll be glowing up and thriving without his nonsense dragging her down.
Yeah, it must feel good in the moment to slam an ex back. But usually that just comes across as bitter and petty. Your cousin has her whole amazing life ahead of her now without that jerk. I say let him fade into old news while she's out here winning. Karma will handle the rest!
Much respect to her for keeping it high road. Takes a strong person to rise above that kind of mess. She's got this!
I mean while they were separated, they both pretend they were still a couple in front of the family as they both attended family get togethers when they were already having issues or were alreayd separated but noone knew. It seems they were having issues long before wwe realized but what I mean is that my cousin is doing the same thing her ex did, posting on social media she may be seeing someone else, of course they are alrady separated (not officially divorced though) that is what I said my cousin shoulod not stoop to her former ex by posting on social media she is seeing someone else. SHe has to wait at least if her relationship is more serious cause the separation was this year.
My mistake my cousin is already divorced one month and a half ago until now I found out,. I guess it iwas a mutual agreement between the two exes the reaosn the divorced came fast and sicne there are no kids involced, the divorce is faster.
You're right, my bad. I misunderstood the full situation at first. Now that you've explained it more, I can see it a bit differently.
Since they were both keeping things private and pretending while separated for a long time, I don't really blame your cousin for now posting about seeing someone new after the divorce is official. I mean, her ex was out here posting other girls way before the split was public knowledge too. And they're both single now after the quick divorce since there were no kids.
As long as your cousin isn't doing it to like directly antagonize the ex or anything, I don't think it's that big a deal if she wants to share about moving on with her life on social media too. Kinda seems fair turnaround after how he acted first, ya know?
At the end of the day all that matters is she's happy. If people know the full history, they'll get why she's doing her own thing online now too after he was out here pretending for so long. Not like she has to hide anything anymore. Good for her for putting herself out there after what he pulled. Makes sense to me!
Never. Living well truly is the best revenge. Years after the divorce I met a woman who was acquainted with my ex-wife. The woman said "All she talks about is you." I rarely thought about my ex, I had moved in and had a new partner.