Why would an ex boyfriend tell you months after the breakup that his love for you will never die?

[strawberrybaby3]

[Altheavas]

1. He thoughts the grass was greener on the other side.
2. He fucking your mind; trynna keep you in the loop.
3. You were not the 1st option, and you’re the last option cause he thought he could do better. He thought he had it. He found out the other side was rougher and is trynna get his spot back.


Now, what do you do ma’am…?


Just my opinion

[Ms_Facesitter]

Why do exes do anything. Let's not wonder about it too much and move on with our lives.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Because he didn't realize it'd be hard to get laid again and he's trying to suck up for friends with benefits.

[strawberrybaby3]

I don’t think so lol.

[BoopBoopBeep]

How come?

[strawberrybaby3]

We are not allowed to even speak to each other , we work together still. He was apologizing for everything he’s done and told me his feelings for me will probably never die. I think he knows we cannot ever take it that far again.

[BoopBoopBeep]

You're not allowed to speak to each other? Says who? God? The Speaking Police? Why can't you take it that far again, as you say?

[strawberrybaby3]

Our boss. Lol

[BoopBoopBeep]

My boss doesn't get to dictate who I talk to outside of work. She can tell me not to talk to Dana at work. She can't tell me not to talk to Dana.

[strawberrybaby3]

I let him call me if he needs to ask something work related but he always tries to add something extra lol. I don’t get the vibe that it’s for sexual reasons though.

[strawberrybaby3]

But he has to call me on no caller ID because he’s blocked lol

[BoopBoopBeep]

You two work in a cult and don't have personal phones?

[strawberrybaby3]

He does call me on my personal phone if it’s work related yes but I had his number blocked so he calls me on unknown. I have him blocked on everything so that it doesn’t open up too much communication.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Well then he's just a loser that can't take the hint, and you're relishing the attention you're getting from him.

[strawberrybaby3]

Well not exactly. I could go without the phone calls. I actually prefer no communication. I don’t think he said it with the intention of anything. It’s probably just a fact that if you spend a long time with somebody, your feelings for them will be strong for a long time, especially if you didn’t break up because of a loss of feeling

[BoopBoopBeep]

Then you likely gave him as many mixed signals as you are here. This is simple. You tell him nothing is going to happen between you, you've moved on, if he mentions something non work related you immediately hang up the phone. No whiny BS "but I said blah blah" no flirty "but I'll see you at work tomorrow" just *click*.

[strawberrybaby3]

It may come off as mixed signals because I still care for him and I feel bad. I don’t want to be rude to him and I don’t really think he’s trying to come onto me, I think he was just stating a fact. There’s nothing really flirty going on, we got into a deep conversation which was when he brought it up.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Giving him mixed signals and leading him on IS rude.

[strawberrybaby3]

It’s not being rude by answering his phone call. When he got into the feelings shit I never said that I had any back even though I do, because we are not getting back together so what’s the use of acknowledging that? I didn’t know he was going to bring that up, I assume if he’s calling he’s going to call about work related things which is what the conversation started off as.

[NathanDavis]

well, it already did... but people just bs you like that sometimes

[Finchie40]

Because he wants to get laid again , he didn’t have any luck being single , so he figured he take another shot at you to get laid again, don’t fall for that bullshit , if he truly loved you in the first place he would of never walked away from you to begin with , Most people have selfish mindsets that only want things their way , if they don’t get their way they will run to someone else hoping to get their way with that new person. Most people have a hard time admitting they were wrong , it’s never their fault , it’s always someone else’s fault , usually their so called loving partner ‘s fault , they point fingers at them , before pointing fingers at themselves first. Never stay with someone or go back to someone that walked away from you period , value yourself worth and realize you deserve better than that shit. When someone truly loves you, they don’t walk away from you period , people that say they need space in a relationship , that say they need time to figure themselves out are people that are selfish , because they only think about themselves , they only like the convenience of you and what they can benefit from you , but they truly don’t love you , you aren’t their top priority , when a girl decides she no longer wants to stay in a committed relationship with me and starts making excuses for her selfish behavior and actions , I tell her to go and I don’t come back cuz I won’t take her back Don’t let the door hit ya in the ass on the way out , if she can’t fight for me , I won’t fight for her , the other guy she is secretly talking to or the other guy she has interest in. can gladly have her, because she is a selfish person that only cares about herself , people should not be getting into relationships to be single , We get into relationships choosing each other over everyone else in this world , if you can’t do that for your partner, don’t expect your partner to that for you , a relationship needs to go both ways , it won’t always be perfect , because we are all imperfect people , but when you prioritize your partner , it makes it easier for your partner to prioritize you , vice versa , what you don’t want your partner doing to you, needs to be the same boundaries for you as well not the other way around. People that truly love each other , don’t walk away from each other or betray each other. period Never be a convenience to someone unless you want to be treated like a convenience. You should always be a top priority in a relationship the same way you make your partner yours. If not , it won’t last period

[spartan55]

Why? Lol to get some sex from you, of course.

[sawno]

So you know he is open to getting back together.

[Staximus]

This is what happens when you fill around with coworkers. That's why they say "don't shit in your own backyard"

[Bklynbadboy12]

This dude is really tryin to mind fuck you. You need to make a clean break from him. He's trying to fuck with your head to keep you on the hook

[strawberrybaby3]

Context is important. We do not communicate anymore, he is blocked on everything but we have to communicate at work so that’s when he said it and apologized for everything. I did not give in I just accepted it and didn’t really acknowledge that part but he said it a few times.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Good im proud of you cause your deserve better

[meh51]

That's so sweet of him. That guy is going through a lot of pain cause the relationship has ended.

[Jmmmfi4]

WANTS PUSSY

[diamonddude89]

Because he still loves you.

[Tomisworthless]

Because you’re hot?