Can I get some actual advice on this I don't know what to really do?

[Anonymous]

So me and my ex broke up months ago bc of a huge fight. I can’t move on from her and i honestly want her back she was my best friend but I don't know what to do bc I don’t want to message her just to get told to get lost or something similar.

i still have her on social media and she posts a lot of pictures of herself doing things but she also posts quotes like “ if it’s meant to be it will happen” “it’s ok to struggle” and quotes like that a lot and she always watches my stories I post could that mean anything like she misses me or am I looking to far into the quote posts?

[Oliverlogan263]

Man this is tough, I can totally understand why you still have feelings if she was your best friend too. A few things to consider:

- The quote posts could definitely mean she's still thinking about you/the relationship too. People don't usually post that stuff for no reason.

- But watching your stories doesn't 100% mean she wants to get back together either. People are nosy, ya know?

- The only way you'll know for sure how she feels is talking to her. But I get not wanting to risk another rejection.

Here's what I might do - message her just to say you've been thinking about her a lot lately and miss your friendship. Don't press about getting back together right away. Test the waters by seeing if she'd maybe want to meet up for coffee as friends to catch up.

If the conversations go well in person and it seems like there could still be feelings, then you can think about bringing up trying again slowly. But take it slow at first - last thing you want is freak her out.

Just be honest about still caring about her but don't put pressure on for anything more yet. Play it cool man. Hope it works out - keep me posted!

[melnc]

I don't know the whole story, but if she wants to leave, let her go. The shift from friendship to a relationship and then a return to friendship is really complicated and confusing. Eventually, she'll begin to live her life with someone else, of course not you.
Live your life

[Paris13]

Try and Be Civil and Friends. I Broke It Off Myself With My Ex Partner But Only Just Recently------Beginning to Lose The Resentment and Be LOve Friends Instead. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks, Gag. xxoo

[laly520]

I think she is already in process of letting go forever tho I recommend meeting her n talking irl
talking over text isn't effective

[Asker]

Do you think it’s too late?

[laly520]

I think there is still a chance

[b_lova]

Sounds like it's time for you to grow a pair little buddy. I don't mean to be mean, but if you want her you are never going to know if she wants to be back with you without putting yourself out there and asking her.

Move on or pursue her my friend, but whatever you do don't just sit there and pine over her. That will make you crazy!

[Anonymous]

Ok well what was the bases for the argument? It depends on what the argument was about. If she’s screwing other men on the side while dating you because that’s what she wants and you don’t than you leave. But you need to offer more context to this in order for people to give a better answer.

[zagor]

Call and say you'd like to talk in person. Figure out what you want to say.

[jaskin777]

Try again

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[jaskin777]

Try again.
Try to be with hee again if u can't leave her then Try again

[Asker]

What should I even say to her?

[jaskin777]

Tell hee exactly how u feel don't beat around the bush

[Asker]

Do you think she has any feelings left towards me? It’s been 9 months you don’t think that me telling her I miss her wouldn’t make me seem crazy?