My ex has just been kinda rude to me. what should I do?

[tybant123]

My ex girlfriend is being a totall, well bitch. I don't like to call girls that but anyways, she is very self centered, and we tried to be friends, but it seems that she is trying to throw it in my face that she is dating other people, and she has just been kinda rude to me. what should I do?

[seregiel]

Don't forget this behavior, as this is a very good lesson that she wasn't worth the effort! Honestly, she just sounds like she is 100 types of jealous, misses you but instead of telling you that and harming her ego, she wants to pull you back in by proving her worth.

Try to ignore it. If you DO anything, you will be the one wrong and as bad as her. Even if you are just confronting her, you are confirming that her actions are getting to you, and if she is throwing it in your face that she is dating other people, chances are she is the type of person to complain to those people she is dating that you talked to her and how much it bothered her and now you are the "bitchy" person in their eyes.

If you want to get away from it, as it sounds like you have the same group of friends, I recommend having a few guys nights where you don't talk about it, don't think about it, just let it slip from your mind and have fun over pizza or something as she isn't worth wasting your energy worrying about. And when your friends are in a group, and she is there, get in a conversation with a few people about a topic she can't jump into so she leaves you be and hangs out with the rest. You can rotate who those few people are, but that way they don't feel stressed that they are in the middle of civil war.

[Reeses-pieces777]

If I were you, I would try to ignore as much as possible unless there's something outstandingly horrible that you did to this girl to cause her to bitchy ie hurt her in some way.

If that isn't the case, if she is just naturally bitchy all the time, then don't take it personally. I would go to her friend and as 'is she like that ALL the time?' w/e or tell it to her face 'it's not my fault you were born that way' seriously, she shouldn't be bitchy if there is no reason to be.

It shows she is very immature and lacks any tact/ communication skills/ consideration if she's telling you who she's dating. who cares, just walk on, hold your head up high, and leave her behind. She'll be pissed that you aren't phased by her actions and eventually if she has any sense in her, will realize that it's wrong to do that some time later in her life. ^_^

[Da-One-n-Only-]

Forget about her or don't talk to her,I'm guessing ya broke up for a reason she probably took it to heart. But you tried being friends there's nothing more you can do about it. Let her act that way go your own away.

[KERMlT]

I'd go on with your life (not that I think you haven't) and do things you enjoy. You can do the things you wanted to do while dating but couldn't (snowboard, children of the corn movie marathon, goto parties and clubs, etc) and when she calls you can tell her how much fun it is being single (if you sincerely think so).

If you choose to do this, it might work as well. Ignore her calls and in like a few months call back and touch base. Doesn't have to be something spectacular like you found a cure for cancer while dropped off the map but it does a few things. It sets how often communication should be between you two and lets her know that you don't have a problem not talking to her. It also allows you to get other interests going.

The only thing worse than meeting a new girl and constantly talking about your ex is meeting a new girl and your ex keeps calling. Women just think that you have a girl and are cheating on her. My ex did that to me constantly after splitting up with sabotaged a few dates. I got wise and turned off my phone after the date started (you don't want to turn it off sooner because your date might be trying to call you for directions or to let you know she'll be a few minutes late). Hope that helps.

[Gdude0000]

same boat man, except my Ex thought it wise to tell me she wasnt dating someone, but sleeping with him, right after she bitched for an hour on the phone because I got drunk a week after we broke up and slept with a girl I know (she found out when she tried to be friends with my sis, who ripped her a new one for cheating behind my back, she didn't sleep with him, but was dating him while dating me at the end of our relationship, that's what did us in...I found out). She has my heart after spending a year with her everyday, but being so immature and attention crazed, well, I know the BEST we can be is friends, even though in between telling me about how good the sex is, she says she wants to try again with me some day :S.

[KERMlT]

Was she a Leo?

[caringiscreepy]

She's a zelophile. She gets sexually aroused by her partner's jealousy. I know you guys broke up but I think she still has feeling for you. I bet she's pretty right? Most attractive girls might experience this and act self-centred and inconsiderate to others feelings. I once had a girlfriend who once we broke up, shed be all touchy flirty with other guys in my view. Some girls like rubbing it in and I'm sure some guys do to. Luckily I had some mates who pulled me out. The best thing for you to do is date another girl and act happier than she ever made you. But to me it sounds like you still have feeling for her.

You got to just hold your dignity and try as hard as you can not to let it get to you.

[Anonymous]

she is a bitch. it's ok to accept that fact. she's trying to hurt you. she's thriving in the thrill of punishing you. don't let her see that it bothers you. don't respond. people don't do other people wrong and get away with it. it always comes back. so don't do something you might have to pay for later. if she really gets to you and you have to return the vengance, then beat her at her own game but don't get into a war of words. no war has ever been won with a battle of words. get you a brand new girlfriend and do what the song says. it's a country song by steve holy.

[bigboi89]

ok I'm gonna be straight forward with this one and I'm usually more sincere but here's wut you do if she's like that completely ignore her maybe find another girl to be with even if you still have feelings for her but pay no attention to her she's excuse my terms here but getting off to ur jealousy just ignore the fact that she exists if she still has feelings for you she will make an effort to let you kno if you want her back accept the first bit of effort she shows because if you reject her that time she may think its all over and lose interest

[bioweapon154]

Get out there and start dating people as well but just don't be vocal about it. Also, try to talk with her about it. If she gets offended, just end the friendship and say its not working out between you two even as friends.

[tex151]

Dick slap her hoe ass, and tell her to give you some respect, or you will have to pimp slap her hoe ass.

[dasouthernicon]

she's ur EX 4a reason, just be glad ur not with her anymore. I say to tell her what she can do with all that talk...

[Atomizer]

You should not contact her, ignore her if she contacts you, and you should move on with your life.

[25yrsofmarriage]

Why would you want to be with someone like that?