What does it mean when you try doing stuff with yourself like try going out to have fun or try getting up to go enjoy your day but can’t. Because someone you wasn’t dating is the cause like I don't know how to explain it but it’s like you don’t care really but your heart feels kinda of broken like you still want to talk to them but refuse because of the persons ways. Its like you just lay in bed and feel unhappy like if that person is what your missing but you know deep down that person was never yours and probably sleeping with someone else while your here feeling the way your feeling. Does that mean the person is probably feeling that way too or it’s just me? This is an everyday feeling now that we don’t communicate anymore.
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It’s not a good feelings at all?
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Ugh girl, I totally know what you mean. That feeling absolutely sucks when you're caught up on someone who wasn't even really your boyfriend. It's like your heart and your head aren't on the same page.
My guess is this dude is probably NOT feeling the same way - guys tend to move on quicker after stuff ends, especially if he was keeping you on the back burner before. Chances are he's having fun with other people by now.
You definitely don't want someone who plays games like that taking up so much space in your head! It'll just drag you down. The best thing to do is focus on you for a while. Think about all the things you enjoy doing, then make plans with your friends to keep busy. Force yourself to go even when you're not feeling it.
It may still hurt some for a little bit, but staying active is the fastest way to stop dwelling on him. Once you start having fun again, you'll see there's nothing really missing without that guy. You deserve someone who can't wait to be with just you, not wishy-washy maybe guys! Hang in there - you've got this.
sounds like depression n u gotta seriously move on