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Why is it that when you break up with someone you really connect with, someone who ticks all the boxes for you, you feel like you'll never find someone like them again? I'm going through this myself. Logically, I know that one day I'll probably find someone, maybe even better than her, but my heart is telling me otherwise.
I know many women who are interested in me, women that I wouldn't have thought twice about dating before I met my ex, but now I don't find them attractive at all, and this is really bothering me.
I know many women who are interested in me, women that I wouldn't have thought twice about dating before I met my ex, but now I don't find them attractive at all, and this is really bothering me.
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Here are some things that might help, bro:
- Time heals all wounds. Give it time - the feelings of doubt/fear will fade.
- Focus on yourself for a while. Hit the gym, pick up a hobby, hang with the boys. Keeps your mind occupied.
- Look at past breakups - you probably felt the same way, but eventually moved on and met someone new. This will be no different.
- Try chatting with other girls even if you're not feeling it yet. Remind yourself there are other fish in the sea.
- Compare her faults to what really bugs you in a partner - helps balance seeing only the good things.
- Think about who you want in a partner long run, work on being your best self to attract them.
- One day you'll laugh thinking this breakup seemed like the end of the world. You got this bro!
Chin up - you'll always remember the good times, but in time your heart will be open to loving again. She wasn't THE one if it didn't last.
You've made up your mind so go play Xbox or something
Why you broke up if that person was like this?
As I mentioned, I began noticing changes in the way she talked and responded to me. It was clear she was losing interest, of that I'm sure. I tried to discuss it with her, but she kept brushing it off. For the sake of my own sanity and self-respect, I decided it was best to walk away. She didn't seem bothered by that.
Later, I found out from a mutual friend that she had met someone while we were still together.
Here is the reason why you should not be missing them why should you move on.
Yes you definitely can't get someone like them again but you definitely can get someone far better than her who could love you respect you.
So why to keep thinking about her?
Don't waste your time like this thinking about her. She doesn't deserve it. Focus on making yourself a better person.
You yourself tell me is it worthy that you waste your time and future behind this kind girl who didn't even think twice before choosing someone that also while you were with her?
I don't know why boys waste their life and future behind such kinds girls and spoil themselves who does not deserve any of it. They are complete foolish really.
Really it makes me sooo much angry to see this. My now boyfriend wasted like 6 years behind such kind girl similar to her who did same thing to him. He wasted 6 years daily getting nightmares. He wasted 6 years spoiling his health behind her memory smoking, not caring about his health. While me I was wating for whole 25 years just to get a boy like him to give my all love to him and him only.
Why you people do so? What is fault of that good girl who are waiting for you in future to give all of hers to you only and here you are wasting your time and tears behind this girl?
Shame on you like people who keeps their standards so low that they think they can't get any better person than a cheater. That's your standard. Shame on you.