Should I tell an ex friend why I ditched her as a friend?

[Anonymous]

She thinks it's 1 thing but it's something completely different. It's actually multiple things but 1 thing was a deal breaker for me. We stopped being friends 5 or 6 years ago but I hear she still talks about me and the reason the friendship is dead according to her is wrong. Or should I just move on?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I don't know if telling your ex friend the real deal is really gonna make you feel any better honestly. Like ya, it bugs you that she still thinks it was something it wasn't. But some people just don't get it no matter what you say!

In my opinion, I'd probably just leave it in the past if I were you. The friendship is long over, so no real point rocking the boat now. And you don't owe her any explanations after all this time either.

If it comes up again somehow and you're in the mood to hash it out, then by all means tell her your truth! But otherwise I'd say try to just let it go sis. It's not worth stressing over someone who ain't even in your life no more, ya feel me? Gotta protect your own peace these days.

You know your reasons were legit. That's all that matters. She can think what she wanna think - doesn't change the facts or how you feel about it! Stay strong, keep it pushin and don't look back girl. The past is the past for a reason, right?

[DishLady]

That sounds so high-school level. Move on.

[Anonymous]

You're too old for this

[Anonymous]

I say do it only if she asks.