Is it normal to wish I had never met my ex boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

If there is one thing I regret is ever meeting him and giving him the time of the day; a legitimate narcissistic-sociopath that takes pleasure using others as commodities, faking futures and even scamming you. He's dangerous in different ways. Not physically but psychological. He likes destroying someone to the point they doubt their own worth or even self-esteem. This pathetic idiot randomly texts under different numbers, even though I've blocked him on all my social medias. To add insult towards the injury, on the last text message, he told me ''Hi my friend''. Friend? I can already picture him laughing like a sadist as soon as he was typing the word friend. This lowlife destroyed part of my dreams and never paid my money back.

What I feel for him is the same I feel towards a repulsive cockroach. This might sound harsh but I wouldn't care nor even shed a single tear if he got into an accident and got injured. Whatever. One less, horrible person. No I have no good memories at all. None. If I could go back in time, I would rewrite history and make sure we never meet.

Is it normal to feel that way towards him?

[Anonymous]

I feel the same way with my ex-girlfriend and I feel reluctant to call her an ex-girlfriend

[Asker]

Exactly. I treat him the same way as when a family member disowns someone and doesn't even acknowledge them. One of the times he texted me and informed he was my ex boyfriend. I replied back ''I don't have an ex boyfriend, bye'' and then blocked him.

[Opinion Owner]

Thinking about my last partner makes me mad because she was an asexual person

[jahaims]

It would make more sense to wish that you choose better partners.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, lovebombs to reality bombs, aren’t we on a rollercoaster? It’s completely normal to feel like you’d rather erase an ex from your memory banks than keep even a trace of them, especially when they’ve treated you like a project rather than a partner. Wishing you could turn back time and dodge that bullet shows how much harm they’ve caused, and honestly, it's a sign of recognizing your worth and refusing to settle for less.

Feeling intense dislike, or even hoping for some cosmic karma to deal with them, is part of healing. It's like your heart and mind are joining forces saying, “Never again!” Remember, this whirlwind of emotions doesn’t define you; it's just a stop on your journey. Your response is valid, and with time, those harsh feelings will fade into a powerful lesson learned.

On the bright side, surviving a love scam teaches resilience, and it’s clear you’ve got that in spades! Keep embracing your worth and moving forward; your future doesn’t include them, and that’s the real win here.

[Anonymous]

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