So she was physically and verbally abusive much of the time she would throw temper tantrums if she didn’t get her way. She has physically hit me in the head once when we were playing nba 2k and she was losing. The second time was when our dog did something and I didn’t react in enough time. She also would hit and kick him to the point where he started becoming aggressive towards her cause I would hear him yelp in pain. She slammed him one day on his crate leaving a massive dent. Everything she has done has been justified by excuses when it came to her hitting me supposedly it was just taps and was played off by her her family and friends, when it came to abusing our dog supposedly she just dropped him even though I seen her pick him up and slam him down on the crate. Anyways when we went to get groceries one day she was bullying me in my car and I ask her politely to please stop and she wouldn’t stop and I was like ok I can pull over so you can exit and she goes I’m not gonna get out and I was like that’s cool I can have the police get you out. So she keeps going so I pull over safely off to a side street and ask her to exit the vehicle and she gets out and walks home and calls her mom and says she can’t be with someone with forced her out of their vehicle. It’s like the relationship is fine when horrible things are happening to me but when I go to save my sanity I’m a villain. I previously attempted to breakup with her before this point cause her sister who was living with us she let do whatever she wanted and I got sick of it and said I wanted to move and she had a meltdown and her sister threatened to kill me if I broke up. Also this was my very first romantic relationship
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Man, that's super messed up dude. No one should have to put up with that kind of abusive crap, especially from their girlfriend. It's good that you finally stood up for yourself and didn't let her walk all over you anymore. You gotta take care of yourself, you know? That stuff she was doing - hitting you, slamming your dog around - it's just not right. made you feel like crap and afraid in your own relationship.
It really sucks that even after all that, she's trying to make you look like the bad guy for getting away from her. Some people just can't admit when they're in the wrong, I guess. But you did the right thing getting out of there before it got worse. Who knows what she might have done next if you kept letting her treat you that way? You shouldn't have to live like that, being afraid of your own girlfriend. No relationship is worth that kind of abuse.
Don't let her manipulate you into thinking you were in the wrong for leaving - you had to look out for your own wellbeing and safety, and there's nothing wrong with that. I know breaking up is hard, especially your first serious relationship, but trust me - you'll be way better off without someone who hits you and your pet. Try not to stress too much about what she's saying; you know the truth. Just move on and don't look back, you deserve so much better than how she treated you!
Abusive. Point blank.
I was routinely blocked from telling my side of the story and I was villainized and often ignored and just had to put up with it