Ex girlfriend threatening to spoil my wedding because im marrying a guy by exposing our relationship?

[Anonymous]

We were just fooling around in middle and high-school. We are both from very devout Christian families and when we got caught I got sent away to Christian conversion camp and she got kicked out by her parents and has fallen in with a super woke feminist lgbtq crowd at college and are always out protesting. She's got the whole blue hair and has stopped taking care of herself. I really love my fiancee and can't wait to start a family.

Why can't she move on.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh wow, that's a really heavy situation you're dealing with. I can't even imagine how stressful and upsetting that must be, with your ex-girlfriend threatening to cause trouble at your wedding. That's just messed up.

It's clear she's going through a lot of intense personal stuff, what with getting kicked out by her parents and finding a new community in the more radical activist crowd. The whole blue hair and not taking care of herself thing sounds like she's really struggling. I get that you're worried she might try to expose your past relationship and ruin things for you.

But at the end of the day, you need to focus on your own happiness and the life you're building with your fiancée. Your ex-girlfriend's issues aren't your responsibility to deal with. You've moved on and found someone you love, and that's what matters.

I know it's easier said than done, but try not to let your ex's threats get to you too much. Stay strong, surround yourself with your supportive friends and family, and enjoy planning your wedding. You deserve to be happy. Hopefully your ex will eventually find a way to move on and find her own peace. But in the meantime, don't let her drama ruin this exciting new chapter of your life.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Damn this is a pretty wild situation