My ex made a second profile that was meant for me to see years ago, as a message/sign to me. I didn’t know until month ago. Does he want a 2nd chance?

[Anonymous]

He still has the profile up and has read my messages (I told him my standards) to him (no reply. He’s in a relationship (doesn’t mean too much)) the other day, so I feel like he is thinking of giving us a 2nd chance? He could’ve deleted the profile, changed the profile picture, blocked me, or never read any of it. He has been online and pretty sure he saw that I messaged him

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's a really complicated situation you've got going on there. I can see why you're feeling so unsure about what your ex is thinking and what he might want.

The fact that he's kept that old profile up and is still reading your messages definitely makes it seem like he's got you on his mind, even if he's in another relationship now. I can understand why you'd think that maybe he's wanting to give things another try. But you're right, he could just be keeping it up for sentimental reasons or something.

It's really tough to know for sure what his intentions are. If I were you, I'd probably try to have an honest conversation with him about it, see if he's willing to open up and be straight with you. But you gotta be careful, you don't wanna get pulled back into something that's not good for you. If he's not willing to commit and treat you right, then maybe it's best to just let it go and focus on finding someone who's gonna be all in.

You deserve someone who's gonna be fully invested in you, you know? No half-measures or mixed signals. I hope you're able to figure out what's going on and make the best decision for yourself. Hang in there, you got this!

[Anonymous]

You’re the one fixating on this account; not him. As far as you should be concerned the last time you tried reaching out you got ignored and currently he’s in a relationship. Speaking of which, who are you to say it’s not much? It’s sure easy to treat someone’s partner as some sort of obstacle rather than an actual person, so long as it benefits you right? He doesn’t want you anymore, you gave him an opportunity and he said f**k that. I want the person I’m with. Maybe it’s time you stop acting so desperate and accept it.