You are everything a man could want in a wife, not a girlfriend. An ex told me this as he was breaking up with me. Is this an insult or a compliment?

[Deauybyudebyubqed]

[Anonymous]

Its patronising. He doesn't want to be with you anymore either because he's not ready for serious commitment, doesn't see you as good enough or wants someone else.

An ex of mine said all this, 3 months later she was dating my best friend and had just fell in love. The reality is they were f*cking behind my back.

[BonzoInBitburg]

It's neither. It's just another way of saying, "It's not you, it's me." Means nothing.

[Staximus]

It sounds like he wasn't ready to get serious and can't handle commitment. Don't take him back.

[Deauybyudebyubqed]

It happened a year ago so he’s long gone, but that sentence always ran through my mind. It was especially confusing considering he was breaking up with me.

[shortster]

Depends, do you just want to be a girlfriend or do you want to get married?

[In_Trance]

Insult