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My boyfriend blocked me everywhere after a tiny argument—what now?

I am heartbroken. I swear I was a good girlfriend. I listened to him, I cooked often for him, I supported him and I communicated and I recently gave him a last chance after his behavior almost costed us to brake up.

It all happened two days ago. I was catching a night flight to my home country and was getting dressed for the airport. My boyfriend (20) wanted to say his final goodbye too. He came over in the night, promised to drive me to the airport (10 minutes away by car) and I cooked him a big meal, his favorite. We were napping and cuddling together before and he stayed laying in bed while I got ready. We were supposed to exit together, so he wouldn’t have stayed. While cuddling he was sad that I will go away for 2 months, we told each other how much we miss and love each other.

I was stressed bc the flight was coming soon and in the rush I forgot where I put my pants. I had to switch on the light briefly to locate them (i also couldn’t spot them with the flashlight on my phone). He got pissed at me, called me selfish. Because apparently I only care about myself and not about his sleep and well being bc now I fully awakened him with the light. That he doesn’t want to drive me to the airport anymore bc he is too tired. I was stunned, I really didn’t want to be disrespectful, but I just couldn’t find those stupid pants despite placing them on the bed counter before. He got mad. He grabbed the food I made him and stormed away. No kiss, no good bye. I was confused. I quickly washed the dishes and left to the airport with a taxi. He sometimes is really impulsive. I thought it was not a big deal, we were both tired. But turns out he immediately blocked me on everything. It has been 2 days, he hasn’t even checked if I got home safely. I tried calling him and texting him, but I was blocked anyway. I now blocked him too for my sanity.

How can he throw me away like that? With not even a clarifying text?

My boyfriend blocked me everywhere after a tiny argument—what now?
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