My ex is a creep.. enough said

[Anonymous]

I had dated this guy for almost two years when we broke up over a year ago. He started dating someone else soon afterwards and we didn't talk to each other for a while. He's contacted me out of nowhere to wish me a happy birthday, make random conversation, whatever. A few weeks ago, we were talking and he wanted to webcam with me. He got me to play this stupid game in which I would ask him questions about myself and if he got them wrong he would take off a piece of clothing. Needless to say, he lost and I don't need to really go into that much detail because what he did after that was extremely inappropriate and something that shouldn't be done in front of someone you're not dating. After that incident, when I called him out on it he was like.. "oh, it was my out of control hormones". He then told me that he would like to be friends again and he promised not to do what he did again. Even before this happened when he would talk to me, he would always ask me sexual questions that would leave me kinda grossed out and confused. I have no feelings towards him whatsoever, all I want to know is why would he do something like that when it's pretty certain he's still with the girl he started seeing after we broke up.

[JH5022]

well first of all id say you were being mean, umm sry I'm being honest, you must be one of those really pretty girls who are rude and think their better than most people, that's not a good thing I'm just basing this off what you said, not to be personal or anyting but umm sounds like he really likes you and pays attention, I thought girls liked attention though, hmmm ur one of the few that needs to work on some things it looks like, be more open and giving, why would you even say he's a creep, I don't know that's messed up people like you tear our social world down slowly but surely

[ALWAYSclassy]

Stuck up? The guy does sound like a creep

[EasyEC]

Why? because you encourage him with your attention. At any time during the webcam chat, you could've disconnected. When he talks to you about sexual things that make you uncomfortable, you continue to be receptive to communication from him.

If you don't want him to be a creep (to you), change his name in your phone book to "AVOID" and don't pick his calls up anymore.

[ALWAYSclassy]

Just ignore him, maybe he thinks he can start something again with you but tell him what he did was inappropriate and you're not feeling him anymore.