@redbull87 Your basing him being a jerk on what she has written about him in a few sentences. There's normally more going on than a few sentences of her perspective.
@redbull87 - yes, it says a lot about someone's character (or lack thereof) if they'll put up with a "jerk" (so you say) just because the "jerk" is handsome.
& cavmanier is right - just because a woman says "he's a bad boyfriend, he doesn't do anything special for me, life with him is boring" doesn't mean it's the whole truth & nothing but the truth. He's apparently not that boring in bed, so already she's contradicting herself.
My advice is sound - handsome/good sex isn't a reason to stay.
but you really don't need any more than that. he's with her, neglects her and sleeps with her.. he's obviously using her, this is like the same story that's happened in history a billion times: girl is with guy who ony uses her for sex. DUR DU H UDHRUGH, common you slow people its not that hard to figure out.
that wasn't your advice sparrow.. you're advice was all about what this random guy who we are all saying we know nothing about deserves better... that sh*t is retarded!
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either dump him or turn it into a friends with benefits thing (if both of you want it)...
If you truly love him, you would do what's best for both of you and end it. That's the best advice I can give you.
Shallowness knows no boundaries and has no limits in this case !
Ask him if he just wants to be friends with benefits lol
Dump him.
He deserves to be with someone that wants him for more than just his looks.
err.. how can you say anything about what this guy, who sounds like a jerk, deserves ? lol
EVERYONE deserves to be with someone who cares about more than just their looks.
Staying in a bad relationship just because he's handsome and good in bed says more about her than him.
no it doesn't.. and no a lot of people don't deserve anything.
@redbull87 Your basing him being a jerk on what she has written about him in a few sentences. There's normally more going on than a few sentences of her perspective.
@redbull87 - yes, it says a lot about someone's character (or lack thereof) if they'll put up with a "jerk" (so you say) just because the "jerk" is handsome.
& cavmanier is right - just because a woman says "he's a bad boyfriend, he doesn't do anything special for me, life with him is boring" doesn't mean it's the whole truth & nothing but the truth. He's apparently not that boring in bed, so already she's contradicting herself.
My advice is sound - handsome/good sex isn't a reason to stay.
but you really don't need any more than that. he's with her, neglects her and sleeps with her.. he's obviously using her, this is like the same story that's happened in history a billion times: girl is with guy who ony uses her for sex. DUR DU H UDHRUGH, common you slow people its not that hard to figure out.
that wasn't your advice sparrow.. you're advice was all about what this random guy who we are all saying we know nothing about deserves better... that sh*t is retarded!
Dang dude, haha! Get over it - difference of opinion, it happens all the time.
Calling people slow because their opinion is different is... wow, haha!
Cheat on him with his fun cousin or brother. Just kidding! Uhm I say break up with him but be fwb
It's really not that hard. Leave him...
a girl put sex above feeling? well that's new
Post a picture of him. Please!
please let me see this model male human
No, this is a typical female though pattern.
I wanna get Hi Hi Hi.