Dude you bring her the soup and a healthy drink as a friend ONLY ! build that relationship up without any other motives in mind. Go in the mindset that she is not going to be your girl.
If you knew that would you still bring it to her? your answer to that is your answer what you should do.
if you are both still on good and talking terms then yes a bowl of soup and a teddy bear will make her happy.
I know if I was still on good terms with my ex-I would-but we don't talk to one another really.
Best of luck buddy-you have a good heart to think like this.
yes ! bring her soup that is so sweet?
it's the thought that counts and even if it's not homemade she will feel touched by the fact that you care. it will probably help to bring you two back together. good luck?
it would be sweet, if you are still together. Depending on the reasons you broke up I would just wait to see her when you go to the movies. I think you should just give her space until you see her...
I think it's a nice gesture. Maybe not the flower though, unless you definitely know she would love that. But all in all if someone did that for me I would be beyond flattered. :)
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You seem overly excited about getting back together with her. I bet she’s the one who broke up with you and you want her back. If that’s the case you shouldn’t be doing anything for her if you have any self respect.
However a part of me feels you. Because I’ve been there before. You should at least ask her if she would like some soup before you bring it over. If she says yes great. But if she’s says no it could be a sign she doesn’t want to accept any favors from you to give off the wrong impression.
Anyway I have never once in my entire life had a woman respectfully break up with me. Ever. All of them had “their reasons” of course but they had their minds clearly made up that they could see their future without me. Given I was no longer of any value I was now expendable or worse. I was even treated like I was less than human once for no justified reason (I am not kidding).
So I do not do anything nice anymore for exes. I just say “well nice knowing you” and if they reach out to me then we proceed on MY terms if they broke up with me.
Do nothing.
She is your ex. Just get on with your life and quit contacting her.
How do you even know she is sick? Why is there that much contact and interaction?
Cut contact with her. Move forward, quit looking backwards.
Why did you two break up and why do you think you two will get back together?
Leave her alone. She's a big girl; she can take care of herself. Save your time and energy for a girl who wants to be with you. Don't even try to get back together with her... once it's over, it's over.
Why do you even care about her?
Leave her alone. Move on.
You were in lover category and are now in friends category. Y'all broke up for a reason, stop investing more time in what has already proven unsuccessful
So much fail.
She is your friend at the moment. That is all. She isn't your girlfriend.
So treat her like she is *just a friend*.
Period.
Bro, you're wasting your precious time that you aren't ever going to get back trying to get back together with your ex. Move on.
If she's still sick when you're going to go over there, maybe make sure she still wants you over and simply offer to nurse her back to health. Even if you don't end up getting back together, you're still friends. Friends are there for each other. :)
If you bring her some soup, any friend would do that...I'm sure she would find it sweet. A flower is suggestive but that's up to you how she would interpret that :)
She's just using you bro. Dangling the possibility of getting back together is how she gets you to do things like this for her without having to put out. Stop simping and move on with your life.
I not an expert in relationship but i question myself if be Going to be soup from a restaurant or prepared by you?
If you can do it with a clear conscience and no hidden motive, then there is no harm.
bring her soup. if your not with any one else and on good terms then maybe go see her if not just let it be.
Whatever you do will likely be wrong, just prepare yourself for that.
Take the soup man - what possible harm can it do?
Soup but no flower. Don't come on too strong. Just soup is thoughtful enough.
Hmm... Well you could take that risk, and bring her soup. But give her, space as you do it. Like, tell her you're bringing it, hug her wish her well and go on about your day as much as you'd want to sit around and talk, let the appreciation flow through her. (: now, if he asks you to stay, then stay of course.
Yeah you should she will recognize that you care about her
If you don't plan on getting back together then treat her as if she's just one of your other girl friends in that case just to leave her alone. If not then yes, she'd probably feel grateful you brought her soup and that she knows you still really do care about her.
I don't know man. What's up with her family? If she gets sicker, despite you giving her medicine or whatever; her family may think you're behind her health condition. Contact her family!
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