Would you believe an anonymous message saying your SO was cheating?

[Anonymous]

If you received an anonymous email or Facebook message saying your SO was cheating, and it had the name/place of work of the person, would you become suspicious or immediately delete?

Would you try to contact the person or would you confront your SO?

[BamaY]

Honestly 4 years ago I would of said don't worry about it; but November of 2009 I had a random message from an anonymous person saying my ex was sleeping around at her college gave me the name of my ex and the guy she was with. I thought it was one of her roommates playing a trick on me since they didn't like me. The next month I went to the college to surprise her by picking her up from school to take her back home for Christmas break I saw her walking out of the boys dorm kissing a guy. I did some back ground checks and he was the guy I was told about 3 weeks before hand.

[kairon156]

I would most likely delete. I would remember the name of the person though incase something did come up that might make it true.

this town is a rumor mill after all.

[Stacyzee]

My significant other may deny it if I ask.

I would message this person back asking for proof and to reveal themselves.

I would keep my eyes open for signs that my significant other is cheating.

You can't really know for sure unless you have proof or reason to believe.

People lie all of the time.

I would just become more aware in our relationship.

But not throw accusations out unless I saw something that shows that he definitely is.

[Asker]

What if they could provide texts?

[Stacyzee]

I would read them and then confront significant other.

But changes are he may deny them.

Are they photo copied texts? That would be more solid than computerized (which could have been altered).

[RiseAbove]

I would go and see if there is any evidence and then maybe just ask her. The one cheating is normally the one to lie, but the homewrecker probably wouldn't care to lie about it. After that I'd be completely up front with my boyfriend. Tell him about the message and see how the chips fall. I've honestly thought about doing this to someone I knew was cheating. Their story really may be true.

[deathnote]

Delete it no questions asked. If that person was ballsy then why don't they show their identity or ask to call me? I never take anonymous messages seriously, this is the stuff that kills relationships. If you let every little thing grab your attention then you won't last very long.

[KJT6989]

Because its anonymous its someone who knows you and they are just scared to tell you, or could be a friend of the girl he's cheating with. I would get more info for sure but you say something to your SO.

[lauramor]

I wouldn't say anything and spy on my boyfriend haah

[ihatework]

oddly enough I feel the same way lol

[FallenRangerz]

I would just confront her and ask her about it. Or find out for myself if it is true.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't necessarily believe it, but I'd question it. If they could provide some kind if proof, then that'd be a different story.

[Anonymous]

no, I would not unless I already had a bad feeling about that too