Guys will like what they want. I'm not attracted to overweight guys and that's just how it is. Sometimes you have to accept that the majority of men won't like you as an overweight human being.
This is like convincing a Muslim to eat pork. Or going to Popeyes chicken, order a 3 piece meal (thigh, leg, breast) but instead you get fried chicken pen*s.
Preferences is not a well respected thought amongst humans.
No one said it isn't OK to date bigger women, we just don't want to. If I don't find bigger women attractive, I don't have to date them. Whoa, what a concept. It's not society keeping bigger women out of my dating pool, but my own personal preference on sexual and romantic partners. I keep myself fit and in shape. I expect the same of any potential mate.
Sure, it's ok to date 'bigger' women. It's also ok to not want to date them, so stop hating on the poor guys who just want their girlfriend to be healthy.
And for god's sake, stop using PCOS as an excuse to be fat. It's not. Your excess weight is only going to make you sicker.
That being said, I'm all for people being comfortable in their own skin. But let's stop making such a big deal out of it, shall we?
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"And for god's sake, stop using PCOS as an excuse to be fat. It's not. Your excess weight is only going to make you sicker." LOL Ok :) do a little research on it, it might help. Also, I'm not sick, so I can't really become "sicker". :)
Oh for the love of God... I'm both studying and working in health care, and I also suffer from PCOS, so I hardly need to do any research.
PCOS goes hand in hand with insulin resistance, a prelude to type 2 diabetes, and something a doctor may or may not test for. The excess body fat and excess sugar/carbohydrate consumption worsens this condition until you pancreas begins to fail.
The doctor that explained this to me when I was diagnosed is one of the leading endocrinologists in the country. PCOS may make it easier to gain, harder to lose weight, but cannot be blamed for poor lifestyle choices. Indeed, the two most effective treatments for the condition and diet and exercise.
You know , a lot of men really like "big" women , even more than you think actually does , but when i tried to speak my mind in front of my friends about how much i like the big women and i dont see the problem society places on them , god that was a horrible day for me
From then until now , they pick on me ( all my friends are male , no female until now -.- ) and that IS the problem , when no man admits or when most of them never say what they truly wants , the picture of ( big is bad ) will hardly change
Also , a personal view , i really wish that the woman i marry will be big , not picky or anything but those women have seen bad days in life ( especially where i live ) and if they find men who take care of them , i think the outcome of the relationship will be very cute :)
Everyone has a different tastes, but if you're solely on looks, your missing out on the more important things, personality, background etc. Take some time to know sombody and you maybe be pleasantly surprised
Well while looks aren't everything, the person has to be somewhat attractive for me to date them. It can't be an extreme where the girl has a great personality/common interests but no physical attractiveness or a girl being very physically attractive but no common interests/dull personality.
You know... Reading this actually made me feel better about myself. Lol! Just because I'm chubby doesn't mean I need to change myself for a guy. Yes, I am working on losing weight and eating healthy but unfortunately my metabolism has always been slow but that doesn't stop me! So many people (mostly guys) don't even give a girl a chance because of her weight.
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Aww that's good, and yeah most people don't get why some people do have a slow metabolism. Some of it is genetics too.
Sometimes it also takes a person to get past their initial reaction to know there's more to a woman than her body. For example, I was at a bar once and a thinner woman was getting hit on. She had a terrific body and had these guys knew it, but... her face was lacking... I don't know. Just something about her. Me, I was sitting beside them and none of them hit on me and I was perfectly available. When I finally turned to them to see what they were doing and saying to this other girl, they saw me, and one guy locked eyes with me a second. He then came over and said, "Holy shit you're beautiful.. those eyes!" and left her sitting there. I was past being interested wanted to be someone's second choice so obviously. But I'll never forgot that. Usually the guys would pass me, then after see my face and then do something about it. :) Thats usually our story, isn't it?
lmao I saw a funny one like that where it showed a fat, shirtless Zach Galifinakis drinking and it said real women go for rolls, 6 packs are for alcoholics.
I don't want to sound like a jerk but I just can't find overweight women attractive. I don't know if it is biological or if it is our society but no matter how I try I just don't find the good looking. I might add that I'm pretty fit myself and exercise 4-6 times a week, so I'm not a hypocrite.
Hey, it's kinda true. That's usually the standard I hold myself to.
I don't expect a girl to shave her legs, because I don't shave mine. I do prefer a girl with shaved armpits, so I do shave mine. I prefer a girl who at least tries to understand the male perspective, so I try to understand the female perspective.
There's nothing wrong with someone who is fit wanting someone else who is fit. If you are unfit, and can get someone fit, more power to you. But if you are unfit and think you are entitled to someone fit, then that's where the problem lies.
And frankly, saying that thin or fit guys SHOULD like large women is doing exactly that.
Oh, by the way, I LOVE your name, Navier-Stokes. I assume you are a complex person who cannot be solved by traditional means. Lol.
Any time I see a girl make a science reference, I feel my faith in humanity get a nice little boost.
Not gonna lie, though, ThatGuy98 actually has a pretty good face, especially for a 17-year-old. I picture Prince Henry when he is older. You might not like it, but I'm sure many other girls will.
@Navier-Stokes What I mean was that since I exercise a lot and take care of my body I expect my future girlfriend to do the same, but you are right, you have every thing to find my face unattractive! :)
@OpenClose Thanks a lot dude, and props to you for understanding the meaning of this comment! ^^
Oh it's okay 😊 but guess what I'm not attracted to super fit guy cause they tend to be very bland (to me at least) but I do like guys who actually are intelligent (unlike most fit guys) and tend to be a little chubby.. Not only that but most fit jocks try to make a move on me I most likely cut them off.. they tend to be very annoying to me and very boring.. they also tend to be unfunny.. so yeah everyone has their own preferences.. I know you may have your preference and I have mine... Good day..
@SweetAndSassy14 Yeah well, that is an unfortunate stereotype. I for one am fit but I probably have some of the highest grades in my school. In the future I want to become a humans rights lawyer, and I find myself quite funny and interesting! But I understand how you reason, and to each their own! ^^
@ThatGuy98 I sure do.. lol Not only that but this is from a girl who has a specialist degree at 14, goes to early college loves researching many topics to debate on such as rape cases, murder cases etc. I won a trophy for singing in the 6th grade. I'm also known to be a very sweet, polite , bright child by my teachers... and extremely sexy to guys at my school and most likely everywhere I go... even guys who aren't attracted to"thick" girls find me to be pretty damn hot.. not only that but I sung in the state choir too... and I can dance , draw, and more... and I love baked fish and salad..(btw I'm a so called thick/curvy black girl)
Sometimes I think it's basically fat girls wanting to be seen as just as pretty as the skinny girls while putting in none of the work. It's lazy, it's entitled, it's hypocritical and we're all being pushed to accept it as normal.
I don't mind obese people all that much. I'm still quite fat myself after all. But what I do mind is the blame-shifting and entitled mindset that goes around in the 'fat acceptance' circles. Some are seriously delusional and it sucks because they're the most loud, too.
I also wanna say that bigger women are judged more than bigger men. Women have to be judge on body, face, health, etc. While men is more of acomplishments. You see a lot of TV shows where the guy is big but have a small beautiful wife like, family guy, simpsons. Fresh Prince etc. I have not seen a good looking thin husband with a bigger wife. Also I am bigger girl and exercise but my skinny friends don't exercise and binge eat. Guess which one of us gets criticize for being lazy? I do. She sleeps for 10-11 hours and eat junk food but everyone slams all bigger girls as lazy slobs.
You're Dutch too, right? Those girls who cussed out a waiter (they were all over the Dutch news) were skinny. That one girl that almost kicked a girl into a coma at school is skinny. The loudest, most entitled, sluttiest girls I knew? ALL skinny. Not saying all skinny people are like that, but it's pretty generalizing to say all fat people are loud. Are you a loud, lazy, entitled hypocrite? Before you dare to say anything about fat girls, fix your own darn weight problem. But of course, you don't have to 'cause you're a man. You have the RIGHT to be fat and complain when hot skinny girls friendzone you. My nephew is like you: 105 kg and thinks any girl over 55 kg is disgusting and fat, has a girlfriend who weighs 43 kg and tells her to shut up when she tells him he should lose weight. Expects hot thin women to accept him as he is, yet cusses out anyone who weight even a gram more than what he likes. And this is coming from an average woman; not fat, not skinny.
@Magdalena93 Whoa now, you are misinterpreting me quite a bit. I am not okay with myself being fat, though I am a bit less bothered by it now than I once was. My goal is to lose the fat, not making up excuses to stay flabby. And that is what the fat-acceptance crowd has a tendency to do. Pushing fat as beautiful so they don't have to get skinny. Did I claim that all fat people are loud hypocrites? No, I was talking about the fat-acceptance movement which I personally see as unscientific and damaging to society. You are free to disagree of course, but I really am not claiming that all fat people are loud, obnoxious and entitled. Those traits are found everywhere regardless of body-composition.
Skinny bitches are common yes, but this is also because they have high self-esteem coupled with an easy life and little ability to self-reflect. Thin after all is still the beauty ideal, and they know they got it so they flaunt it. That doesn't mean all skinny people are obnoxious, either.
@Magdalena93 Also, let's not forget that we still have more skinny people than fat people in our society. So anything bad is always skewed against 'the skinnies' simply because there are more of them.
What I do dislike quite a bit is fat-discrimination but this goes both ways. Fat people are persons too and one should not be made fun of merely because you are overweight, but at the same time fat people should not delude themselves into thinking that they are 'overweight but healthy' and that being slender is inherently unhealthy. That's twisting the facts to suit your own agenda.
@Remonster Well, it's your problem whether you feel bad about your bodytype or not. I'm just the kind of person that thinks like this: if you're fat, you have no right to tell others they should eat healthy and lose weight, rather focus on fixing yourself if you want to. If you don't, fine, but then keep your mouth shut about other people.
Actually the Netherlands is one of the countries where the obesity rate has been DEcreasing for the past few years, thanks to education, acceptance and making people realize that it isn't about looking hot and sexy for guys, but about being a healthier, happier version of yourself. Do you think you're doing fat people a favour when you call them ugly disgusting and obnoxious? You're not. Those people will take much longer to lose the excess weight than those who feel great about themselves and want to get healthy for themselves rather than for people like you.
To conclude: I don't hate fat people. I hate faulty reasoning and unscientific logic. To conclude: I don't hate fat people. I hate faulty reasoning and unscientific logic. To conclude: I don't hate fat people. I hate faulty reasoning and unscientific logic. To conclude: I don't hate fat people. I hate faulty reasoning and unscientific logic. To conclude: I don't hate fat people. I hate faulty reasoning and unscientific logic.
How blatantly do I have to spell it out for you before you stop misinterpreting my loathing of 'fat-logic' as fat people hate?
Get into shape, and you'll have more dating options. It's like how guys need to have some confidence and conversational skills or they won't get dates. Get used to it or start buying cat food.
It's a double standard really. I mean yes everyone has their preferences and you never see women say real women go for fat/overweight guys. Then you also have girls who will only date someone who looks like Channing Tatum, Brad Pitt, etc and feel entitled to that.
The majority of men actually do like a little more "thickness" than what is considered perfection by the fashion media. But still the majority of men simply do not find overweight women attractive. It looks unhealthy even if it is not. I'm all for women with curves but not for women with muffin top.
Noyce, aunty and some arrogant pook heads who thinks that weight can be maintained and stay thin regrdless of any health conditions.
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double standard.. thers a post about a picture of a skinny looking girl. compare it the comments here, this is what im seeing: "overweight, plus-sized" - "oh don't fat-shame, be happy with yourself, etc etc. "skinny"- not attractive, unhealthy, gross, "skinny bitches"
Look, try as you might, attempt to use manipulative words all you will or do whatever you will and it won't change the fact that the majority of men are not attracted to fat women. Period. Just as women look for the most suitable mate so do men.
I kinda like scrolling through the comments to see how many comments get down votes, up votes, and whatnot. It's entertaining to see how many people agree with each other or not.
whats with the "is okay". They are human beings not animals. If you are a shallow bastard you don't deserve her, simple... Plus there is 3 types of bodies in my opinion. 1. anorexic 2. average 3. obese. 1 and 3 are unhealthy. I find your title offensive and I am a 2
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Guys will like what they want. I'm not attracted to overweight guys and that's just how it is. Sometimes you have to accept that the majority of men won't like you as an overweight human being.
The first girl is super hot though.
This is like convincing a Muslim to eat pork. Or going to Popeyes chicken, order a 3 piece meal (thigh, leg, breast) but instead you get fried chicken pen*s.
Preferences is not a well respected thought amongst humans.
I didn't kno it was like that ^^^
Considering she stated this was aimed, NOT at people who weren't attracted to it...
But ok
No one said it isn't OK to date bigger women, we just don't want to. If I don't find bigger women attractive, I don't have to date them. Whoa, what a concept. It's not society keeping bigger women out of my dating pool, but my own personal preference on sexual and romantic partners. I keep myself fit and in shape. I expect the same of any potential mate.
How is this piece NOT trying to shame us into going out with fat girls?
"We embrace life." That's a great attitude... "We are the ones who are not afraid to eat" ... until that bit.
Embracing life =/= eating, especially the 'putting extra cheese on stuff' type of eating you describe.
I have a bit of a weakness for big women with pretty faces. The size doesn't really bother me if her face is hot.
Sure, it's ok to date 'bigger' women. It's also ok to not want to date them, so stop hating on the poor guys who just want their girlfriend to be healthy.
And for god's sake, stop using PCOS as an excuse to be fat. It's not. Your excess weight is only going to make you sicker.
That being said, I'm all for people being comfortable in their own skin. But let's stop making such a big deal out of it, shall we?
"And for god's sake, stop using PCOS as an excuse to be fat. It's not. Your excess weight is only going to make you sicker."
LOL Ok :) do a little research on it, it might help. Also, I'm not sick, so I can't really become "sicker". :)
Oh for the love of God... I'm both studying and working in health care, and I also suffer from PCOS, so I hardly need to do any research.
PCOS goes hand in hand with insulin resistance, a prelude to type 2 diabetes, and something a doctor may or may not test for. The excess body fat and excess sugar/carbohydrate consumption worsens this condition until you pancreas begins to fail.
The doctor that explained this to me when I was diagnosed is one of the leading endocrinologists in the country. PCOS may make it easier to gain, harder to lose weight, but cannot be blamed for poor lifestyle choices. Indeed, the two most effective treatments for the condition and diet and exercise.
You know , a lot of men really like "big" women , even more than you think actually does , but when i tried to speak my mind in front of my friends about how much i like the big women and i dont see the problem society places on them , god that was a horrible day for me
From then until now , they pick on me ( all my friends are male , no female until now -.- ) and that IS the problem , when no man admits or when most of them never say what they truly wants , the picture of ( big is bad ) will hardly change
Also , a personal view , i really wish that the woman i marry will be big , not picky or anything but those women have seen bad days in life ( especially where i live ) and if they find men who take care of them , i think the outcome of the relationship will be very cute :)
Everyone has a different tastes, but if you're solely on looks, your missing out on the more important things, personality, background etc. Take some time to know sombody and you maybe be pleasantly surprised
Well while looks aren't everything, the person has to be somewhat attractive for me to date them. It can't be an extreme where the girl has a great personality/common interests but no physical attractiveness or a girl being very physically attractive but no common interests/dull personality.
I get what you are saying, there's got to be a mix
You know... Reading this actually made me feel better about myself. Lol! Just because I'm chubby doesn't mean I need to change myself for a guy. Yes, I am working on losing weight and eating healthy but unfortunately my metabolism has always been slow but that doesn't stop me! So many people (mostly guys) don't even give a girl a chance because of her weight.
Aww that's good, and yeah most people don't get why some people do have a slow metabolism. Some of it is genetics too.
Sometimes it also takes a person to get past their initial reaction to know there's more to a woman than her body. For example, I was at a bar once and a thinner woman was getting hit on. She had a terrific body and had these guys knew it, but... her face was lacking... I don't know. Just something about her. Me, I was sitting beside them and none of them hit on me and I was perfectly available. When I finally turned to them to see what they were doing and saying to this other girl, they saw me, and one guy locked eyes with me a second. He then came over and said, "Holy shit you're beautiful.. those eyes!" and left her sitting there. I was past being interested wanted to be someone's second choice so obviously. But I'll never forgot that. Usually the guys would pass me, then after see my face and then do something about it. :) Thats usually our story, isn't it?
Obesity is an epidemic and be treated as such. Overweight people should be shown thats not socially acceptable to be a fattie.
Fat acceptance, it's not just for the men!
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lmao I saw a funny one like that where it showed a fat, shirtless Zach Galifinakis drinking and it said real women go for rolls, 6 packs are for alcoholics.
Actually in a way that are both handsome 😆😆😆
I don't want to sound like a jerk but I just can't find overweight women attractive. I don't know if it is biological or if it is our society but no matter how I try I just don't find the good looking. I might add that I'm pretty fit myself and exercise 4-6 times a week, so I'm not a hypocrite.
it's natural... for example I find your face ugly and unattractive... and I'm quite beautiful so I'm not a hypocrite.
Hey, it's kinda true. That's usually the standard I hold myself to.
I don't expect a girl to shave her legs, because I don't shave mine.
I do prefer a girl with shaved armpits, so I do shave mine.
I prefer a girl who at least tries to understand the male perspective, so I try to understand the female perspective.
There's nothing wrong with someone who is fit wanting someone else who is fit. If you are unfit, and can get someone fit, more power to you. But if you are unfit and think you are entitled to someone fit, then that's where the problem lies.
And frankly, saying that thin or fit guys SHOULD like large women is doing exactly that.
Oh, by the way, I LOVE your name, Navier-Stokes. I assume you are a complex person who cannot be solved by traditional means. Lol.
Any time I see a girl make a science reference, I feel my faith in humanity get a nice little boost.
Not gonna lie, though, ThatGuy98 actually has a pretty good face, especially for a 17-year-old. I picture Prince Henry when he is older. You might not like it, but I'm sure many other girls will.
@Navier-Stokes What I mean was that since I exercise a lot and take care of my body I expect my future girlfriend to do the same, but you are right, you have every thing to find my face unattractive! :)
@OpenClose Thanks a lot dude, and props to you for understanding the meaning of this comment! ^^
Oh it's okay 😊 but guess what I'm not attracted to super fit guy cause they tend to be very bland (to me at least) but I do like guys who actually are intelligent (unlike most fit guys) and tend to be a little chubby..
Not only that but most fit jocks try to make a move on me I most likely cut them off.. they tend to be very annoying to me and very boring.. they also tend to be unfunny.. so yeah everyone has their own preferences.. I know you may have your preference and I have mine...
Good day..
*guys
@SweetAndSassy14 Yeah well, that is an unfortunate stereotype. I for one am fit but I probably have some of the highest grades in my school. In the future I want to become a humans rights lawyer, and I find myself quite funny and interesting! But I understand how you reason, and to each their own! ^^
@ThatGuy98
I sure do.. lol
Not only that but this is from a girl who has a specialist degree at 14, goes to early college loves researching many topics to debate on such as rape cases, murder cases etc. I won a trophy for singing in the 6th grade. I'm also known to be a very sweet, polite , bright child by my teachers... and extremely sexy to guys at my school and most likely everywhere I go... even guys who aren't attracted to"thick" girls find me to be pretty damn hot.. not only that but I sung in the state choir too... and I can dance , draw, and more... and I love baked fish and salad..(btw I'm a so called thick/curvy black girl)
@SweetAndSassy14 Wow respect to you haha. you've sure been busy! :D
@ThatGuy98
I know right LOL
how about fat girls just stop overeating and start exercising?
somehow, men are smart enough i don't see takes like 'why you should date a fat guy'.
Sometimes I think it's basically fat girls wanting to be seen as just as pretty as the skinny girls while putting in none of the work. It's lazy, it's entitled, it's hypocritical and we're all being pushed to accept it as normal.
I don't mind obese people all that much. I'm still quite fat myself after all. But what I do mind is the blame-shifting and entitled mindset that goes around in the 'fat acceptance' circles. Some are seriously delusional and it sucks because they're the most loud, too.
I also wanna say that bigger women are judged more than bigger men. Women have to be judge on body, face, health, etc. While men is more of acomplishments. You see a lot of TV shows where the guy is big but have a small beautiful wife like, family guy, simpsons. Fresh Prince etc. I have not seen a good looking thin husband with a bigger wife. Also I am bigger girl and exercise but my skinny friends don't exercise and binge eat. Guess which one of us gets criticize for being lazy? I do. She sleeps for 10-11 hours and eat junk food but everyone slams all bigger girls as lazy slobs.
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did u seriously just cite two freakish cartoons to back up your point about fatties?
Why u should date a fat guy... "either u have looks, the body or money" -that gag guu
@Remonster
You're Dutch too, right? Those girls who cussed out a waiter (they were all over the Dutch news) were skinny. That one girl that almost kicked a girl into a coma at school is skinny. The loudest, most entitled, sluttiest girls I knew? ALL skinny. Not saying all skinny people are like that, but it's pretty generalizing to say all fat people are loud. Are you a loud, lazy, entitled hypocrite? Before you dare to say anything about fat girls, fix your own darn weight problem. But of course, you don't have to 'cause you're a man. You have the RIGHT to be fat and complain when hot skinny girls friendzone you. My nephew is like you: 105 kg and thinks any girl over 55 kg is disgusting and fat, has a girlfriend who weighs 43 kg and tells her to shut up when she tells him he should lose weight. Expects hot thin women to accept him as he is, yet cusses out anyone who weight even a gram more than what he likes.
And this is coming from an average woman; not fat, not skinny.
@Magdalena93 Whoa now, you are misinterpreting me quite a bit. I am not okay with myself being fat, though I am a bit less bothered by it now than I once was. My goal is to lose the fat, not making up excuses to stay flabby. And that is what the fat-acceptance crowd has a tendency to do. Pushing fat as beautiful so they don't have to get skinny. Did I claim that all fat people are loud hypocrites? No, I was talking about the fat-acceptance movement which I personally see as unscientific and damaging to society. You are free to disagree of course, but I really am not claiming that all fat people are loud, obnoxious and entitled. Those traits are found everywhere regardless of body-composition.
Skinny bitches are common yes, but this is also because they have high self-esteem coupled with an easy life and little ability to self-reflect. Thin after all is still the beauty ideal, and they know they got it so they flaunt it. That doesn't mean all skinny people are obnoxious, either.
@Magdalena93 Also, let's not forget that we still have more skinny people than fat people in our society. So anything bad is always skewed against 'the skinnies' simply because there are more of them.
What I do dislike quite a bit is fat-discrimination but this goes both ways. Fat people are persons too and one should not be made fun of merely because you are overweight, but at the same time fat people should not delude themselves into thinking that they are 'overweight but healthy' and that being slender is inherently unhealthy. That's twisting the facts to suit your own agenda.
@Magdalena93 To conclude: I don't hate fat people. I hate faulty reasoning and unscientific logic.
@Remonster
Well, it's your problem whether you feel bad about your bodytype or not. I'm just the kind of person that thinks like this: if you're fat, you have no right to tell others they should eat healthy and lose weight, rather focus on fixing yourself if you want to. If you don't, fine, but then keep your mouth shut about other people.
Actually the Netherlands is one of the countries where the obesity rate has been DEcreasing for the past few years, thanks to education, acceptance and making people realize that it isn't about looking hot and sexy for guys, but about being a healthier, happier version of yourself. Do you think you're doing fat people a favour when you call them ugly disgusting and obnoxious? You're not. Those people will take much longer to lose the excess weight than those who feel great about themselves and want to get healthy for themselves rather than for people like you.
To conclude: I don't hate fat people. I hate faulty reasoning and unscientific logic.
To conclude: I don't hate fat people. I hate faulty reasoning and unscientific logic.
To conclude: I don't hate fat people. I hate faulty reasoning and unscientific logic.
To conclude: I don't hate fat people. I hate faulty reasoning and unscientific logic.
To conclude: I don't hate fat people. I hate faulty reasoning and unscientific logic.
How blatantly do I have to spell it out for you before you stop misinterpreting my loathing of 'fat-logic' as fat people hate?
Let's make it simple.
Fat/obese girls?
Get into shape, and you'll have more dating options. It's like how guys need to have some confidence and conversational skills or they won't get dates. Get used to it or start buying cat food.
@RationalMale, yes, yes indeed I did use it as a point.
It's a double standard really. I mean yes everyone has their preferences and you never see women say real women go for fat/overweight guys. Then you also have girls who will only date someone who looks like Channing Tatum, Brad Pitt, etc and feel entitled to that.
The majority of men actually do like a little more "thickness" than what is considered perfection by the fashion media. But still the majority of men simply do not find overweight women attractive. It looks unhealthy even if it is not. I'm all for women with curves but not for women with muffin top.
Noyce, aunty and some arrogant pook heads who thinks that weight can be maintained and stay thin regrdless of any health conditions.
double standard.. thers a post about a picture of a skinny looking girl. compare it the comments here, this is what im seeing:
"overweight, plus-sized" - "oh don't fat-shame, be happy with yourself, etc etc.
"skinny"- not attractive, unhealthy, gross, "skinny bitches"
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Lol. Yeah, there is a lot of that going on. Apparently "skinny shaming" doesn't exist but it clearly does.
Look, try as you might, attempt to use manipulative words all you will or do whatever you will and it won't change the fact that the majority of men are not attracted to fat women. Period. Just as women look for the most suitable mate so do men.
I kinda like scrolling through the comments to see how many comments get down votes, up votes, and whatnot. It's entertaining to see how many people agree with each other or not.
Ok...
whats with the "is okay".
They are human beings not animals. If you are a shallow bastard you don't deserve her, simple... Plus there is 3 types of bodies in my opinion. 1. anorexic 2. average 3. obese.
1 and 3 are unhealthy. I find your title offensive and I am a 2
i guess there's no such thing as an athletic, skinny, overweight, chubby, curvy (coke bottle), burly etc type of body huh..
Athletic=2, overweight=3 curvey=2 so on. Im saying if your not sick, then there is nothing wrong.
Actually it's about how well the woman carries her weight oh and her body shape...
the stupidity!! I am saying that the title is offensive and people shouldn't be labeled. fuck
There's no need trying to persuade anyone, at the end of the day people like what they like and nothing you say will change that.