Why "Nice Guys/Girls" Are Not Really Nice (Page 3)

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Yellowbone Follow
Yoda Age: 33

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I would like to add that some guys are so focused on being nice that they actually turn out to be annoying, clingy, or they baby us.

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Kuraj Follow
Yoda Age: 36

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Well at least there is no danger of you being considered nice if the first thing you talk about are "leagues".

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goflipaburger Follow
Guru Age: 35

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👏great job! Really wish guys would understand this.

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Phoenix98 Follow
Master Age: 33

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Lol really another one of these? you did make some valid points but this topic really just needs to be laid to rest, not brought up again lol.

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AngryHorny Follow
Xper 7 Age: 40

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Excellent take, and painfully accurate. I'm happy to say I'm no longer pretending to be "nice" or waiting for girls to see something that clearly isn't there.

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apexalpha Follow
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It seems deluded that some think they are entitled for being nice. And if you don't tick someone's boxes then don't expect to get a date out of them its that simple

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Reflexy Follow
Xper 7 Age: 28

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The first picture is very true. Great take overall :) there is absolutely no reason to go out with someone who you dont find attractive. Same reason why you shouldn't go out with someone whos a nob

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TheSpartan Follow
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This is a generally decent take, except for number 3. I don't have to be nice to anybody. And, if I'm being nice to a girl, it isn't usually because I'm simply fulfilling a social obligation.

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- SIGguy
  
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  Exactly! You're expected to be polite, not nice.
  
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- TheSpartan
  
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  Couldn't have said it better myself.
  
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Tanisha69 Follow
Yoda Age: 36

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I got a friendzone, an enemyzone, and a get-out-of-my-face-before-I-bust-yo-nose zone.

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Anonymous
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I agree but your number 1 reason is flawed. You can't change who your attracted to what kind of body or person. And saying to a lazy person or ovese person that. Your basically telling them to settle.

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- Sara413
  
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  Sure, you can't change who you're attracted to, but if you're only "attracted" to people who are much more desireable that you are, in general, you're gonna have a bad time... and you shouldn't blame them for not wanting to take three steps down to be with you.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Oh I agree with that @Sara413. And if your not willing to put in work to be a better person. You can only blame yourself. I just read it from the asker. Dont even try to get someone out of your league. Which is not encouraging to anyone
  
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- ras144
  
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  I mean, be realistic. Do you really think Britney Spears would date Steven Hawking? I think that's what she means by in your league.
  
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- ras144
  
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  Also, you can't be like "No Fat Chicks" and you're Chris Christie's size.
  
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Anonymous
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another niceguy/girl shaming take. i bet most people that write those are 1) either losers themselves or 2) alpha but fed up with whiny foreveralone people... .

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theguanaco Follow
Xper 5 Age: 35

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I agree that anyone, guy or girl has the right to choose who they want. Those that complain dont deserve any better than the ones that reject them.

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Anonymous
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Loved It!!! This myTake should be forever in rotation on GAG :)

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medical2523 Follow
Explorer Age: 34

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So what my niceness comes out in my personality and how I talk cause I have had so many girls say you are so nice maybe even too nice

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JustinX9 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 33

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I don't blame others I always blame myself for my luck of success

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Anonymous
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Yep this is great. This goes for men and women who do this

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DiegoO Follow
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Your take is one of the worst I've read here.

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Sara413 Follow
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This take was right on the money :) Good job!

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QuestionMan Follow
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Great take

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sailorjupiter Follow
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yezza, totally agree with this! ;)

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