Excellent take, and painfully accurate. I'm happy to say I'm no longer pretending to be "nice" or waiting for girls to see something that clearly isn't there.
It seems deluded that some think they are entitled for being nice. And if you don't tick someone's boxes then don't expect to get a date out of them its that simple
The first picture is very true. Great take overall :) there is absolutely no reason to go out with someone who you dont find attractive. Same reason why you shouldn't go out with someone whos a nob
This is a generally decent take, except for number 3. I don't have to be nice to anybody. And, if I'm being nice to a girl, it isn't usually because I'm simply fulfilling a social obligation.
I got a friendzone, an enemyzone, and a get-out-of-my-face-before-I-bust-yo-nose zone.
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I agree but your number 1 reason is flawed. You can't change who your attracted to what kind of body or person. And saying to a lazy person or ovese person that. Your basically telling them to settle.
Sure, you can't change who you're attracted to, but if you're only "attracted" to people who are much more desireable that you are, in general, you're gonna have a bad time... and you shouldn't blame them for not wanting to take three steps down to be with you.
Oh I agree with that @Sara413. And if your not willing to put in work to be a better person. You can only blame yourself. I just read it from the asker. Dont even try to get someone out of your league. Which is not encouraging to anyone
I agree that anyone, guy or girl has the right to choose who they want. Those that complain dont deserve any better than the ones that reject them.
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Loved It!!! This myTake should be forever in rotation on GAG :)
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another niceguy/girl shaming take. i bet most people that write those are 1) either losers themselves or 2) alpha but fed up with whiny foreveralone people... .
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I would like to add that some guys are so focused on being nice that they actually turn out to be annoying, clingy, or they baby us.
Well at least there is no danger of you being considered nice if the first thing you talk about are "leagues".
👏great job! Really wish guys would understand this.
Lol really another one of these? you did make some valid points but this topic really just needs to be laid to rest, not brought up again lol.
Excellent take, and painfully accurate. I'm happy to say I'm no longer pretending to be "nice" or waiting for girls to see something that clearly isn't there.
It seems deluded that some think they are entitled for being nice. And if you don't tick someone's boxes then don't expect to get a date out of them its that simple
The first picture is very true. Great take overall :) there is absolutely no reason to go out with someone who you dont find attractive. Same reason why you shouldn't go out with someone whos a nob
This is a generally decent take, except for number 3. I don't have to be nice to anybody. And, if I'm being nice to a girl, it isn't usually because I'm simply fulfilling a social obligation.
Exactly! You're expected to be polite, not nice.
Couldn't have said it better myself.
I got a friendzone, an enemyzone, and a get-out-of-my-face-before-I-bust-yo-nose zone.
I agree but your number 1 reason is flawed. You can't change who your attracted to what kind of body or person. And saying to a lazy person or ovese person that. Your basically telling them to settle.
Sure, you can't change who you're attracted to, but if you're only "attracted" to people who are much more desireable that you are, in general, you're gonna have a bad time... and you shouldn't blame them for not wanting to take three steps down to be with you.
Oh I agree with that @Sara413. And if your not willing to put in work to be a better person. You can only blame yourself. I just read it from the asker. Dont even try to get someone out of your league. Which is not encouraging to anyone
I mean, be realistic. Do you really think Britney Spears would date Steven Hawking? I think that's what she means by in your league.
Also, you can't be like "No Fat Chicks" and you're Chris Christie's size.
I agree that anyone, guy or girl has the right to choose who they want. Those that complain dont deserve any better than the ones that reject them.
Loved It!!! This myTake should be forever in rotation on GAG :)
another niceguy/girl shaming take. i bet most people that write those are 1) either losers themselves or 2) alpha but fed up with whiny foreveralone people... .
So what my niceness comes out in my personality and how I talk cause I have had so many girls say you are so nice maybe even too nice
I don't blame others I always blame myself for my luck of success
Your take is one of the worst I've read here.
Yep this is great. This goes for men and women who do this
This take was right on the money :) Good job!
Great take
yezza, totally agree with this! ;)