Women, its OK to value a man's socio-economic status when dating (Page 2)

[Bluemax]

Good myTake.

How much a man earns does say something about his intelligence, his ambition, his charisma, and other things. I've never begrudged women for factoring in a man's wealth, as long as it isn't the only factor... and this coming from a guy who earns a teacher's salary.

[swynts]

Yes, I do care. A man, at a minimum, needs to be my equal, which means he needs to be able to take care of his own house. And if he is more successful, that makes me feel more secure and that he not only compliments me, but adds to my life.

[snoopybaron]

"Yes, I do care."

That's why you're not married.

[swynts]

@snoopybaron Not really. Just because I want to be with a man that is financially secure doesn't mean "that's why you're not married." I think you're pretty superficial to make comments like that even though I think you were implying that I'm superficial. I'm practical. You're a dick.

[fuuuark]

Lol 35 your time is ticking, remember a guy doesn't care if you have a good job, your biggest asset is fading (looks) you can't demand a guy with a minimum of equal money if not more if you can't exchange equal value, as your money and job has no value to almost all men.

[Lolomon]

I think society correlates being wealthy with being successful , driven , a leader , go getter and disciplined. Which is attractive to women on a biological level, not wealth part. But to me being successful doesn't necessarily equal wealth.

[Anonymous]

Women don't need an okay pass to be shallow and money hungry. They do that already.

[myTake Owner]

i know they do, this isn't a pass, but rather...
Hmmm, i guess i wrote this, so they could be honest about it
So they can be honest with themselves and what they want

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with liking they possess a lot of currency, but being with them for only hat reason is an issue.

[myTake Owner]

I agree completely as you read :)

[Victoria963]

As long as he contributes my equal or more, I'm fine.

[fuuuark]

I pretend to have less money than I do because the last thing I want, is a hypergamous whore as a girlfriend

[Anonymous]

If I liked a guy he wouldn't have richm I would want him to have a stable job and for him to know what he wants with his life and go for it. I have meet guys that have no job and have no sense of direction to were their life is going.

[M_A_X]

There are women who would find it appalling, because it's not true of every woman.

[ConsultantIsBack]

Totally. I think a girl would be crazy to not consider his career, ambitions, and status in who she wants to be with.

[Anonymous]

Excuse me for living in a world where most jobs are either taken or gets taken by people who already got a job!

I don't have a high wage job, does that makes me a worse boyfriend? No!

Even if I had I'd refuse to take the role as the provider.

[Thor696]

Great MyTake! Completely agree!

[Anonymous]

Well I guess it's meant to make sense

[Anonymous]

Its also ok for men to do the same.