6 Reasons Why You Should Hook Up Before Your First Date (Page 2)

[NatashaJ]

and if you do and he never calls you again because he thinks your a ho or was using you then what? one reason not to do this.

[Anonymous]

these stuff work for seculars. in the mindset of a christian its all vain nonsense. but i have to get "supernatural" to explain why. if you dont experience daily what the grace of God can offer you have no reason to believe me and it will all seem like nonsense. its a gift to us christians its not something we achieve "for our goodness". if you dont experience this divine love then its only normal you think like seculars do. we believe and know from experience that a successful wedding needs no "chemistry", "sparks", "sexual compatibility" and all these societal excuses for people to not love, and not see the problem in themselves. just two humans who love each other cause they both love Him who is Love incarnate. a couple that daily practice what church says, that the relationship between man and woman should be like thatwhich Christ has with the church. how can such a couple have hatred, bitterness, and hard feelings for one another?

[Opinion Owner]

by the way if you think "but i've seen christians who blah blah". many of us are self proclaimed disciples of His, but as He said "the lukeworms are appalling to me" and "because of you my Name will be cursed by the world". and that "i'll tell you who are you, i dont know you". many of us who you see like that are this exact kind of case.

[Yellow_]

Though I am not Christian, I agree.

I believe in something similar.

[Octavius]

There is no check on the first date because I don't take them to a restaurant on the first date. How am I supposed to talk to a girl if our mouths are stuffed with food.

[nymous1234]

Lol this sounds kind of ideal to me I never understood that practice americans have of going on these formal dinner restaurant things with someone they did not know well. I feel when you do not know someone so well casual situations are the best way to go.

[Dragonstarterplus]

I don't even know what this take is. Meeting someone and then arranging the two of you get together for drinks IS a date. Its just a casual date that hopefully isn't going to cost too much and put too much pressure on either person

[sickz]

This is the most irresponsible tripe I've read on GaG. You're encouraging young impressionable females to be promiscuous. What worries me is there's numerous young ladies who agree with you.

Despicable.

[serp777]

You're despicable for thinking your ancient religious values are superior and pretending to be self righteous. Its the modern age; sex is fun and can be very safe with the proper "equipment."

[sickz]

@serp777 yknow where people go who want to have sex for fun?

A BROTHEL.

[singlebee]

Nice fun take... But then there would be no second date for sure.. Or maybe the would be.. But then it would ask be about sex only...
And I would think that she is so slutty... Cause then I would think she has done the same with other guys... And I wouldn't be comfy with that at all...

Here... I just told everyone the truth... !

[singlebee]

Also I would think she must be having any STD or something.. LOL

[Cherrymelon]

This things doesn't work for for me. I'm old school...

[ElissaDido]

Same here

[sillyotter]

Reads like a bad Buzzfeed article.

Just scrolled down to read the female responses and they've got it covered from pretty much every angle. Basically this is a great idea if you're looking for sex. Not so much if you're looking for a relationship.

[BelleGirl21]

Dates are "spexial" but sex isn't? I'm confused here

[gapminder]

@BelleGirl21 I'm so glad I'M NOT playing the field. Because good lord! It's insanely vein and impersonal.

[DodgersGM]

I disagree with everything here. Well, except for the carrot bouquet, which is an amazing idea.

Anyway, to each his own.

[Anonymous]

If I'm not looking for anything serious and just wants to fuck, no I will not be offended. I'll actually love it. If a guy wants to mess around after not knowing me well then he's definitely not relationship material... ALSO I have to know he doesn't have STDs first. I refuse to catch anything or get pregnant

[Heyyakkk]

I disagree.

Dating can still be awkward and the dates aren't special

[douride2]

LMAO Matbe Im just to old but I can see why you posted this anonymously.

[Anonymous]

I would feel used and discarded like a sardine can.

But then... I would never sleep with a guy outside of marriage anyway.

[Anonymous]

The longest relationship I had we never went on a "date" at all. And we were together for 2 years. No official date, we simply liked eachother and trashed the traditional methods.
Only problem that broke us up was her desire for kids, she wanted more than one kid and I hate kids.

[gaaxure]

Yeah, cause there's no way someone will just fuck you and never contact you again after that. Do you even hear how ridiculous this sounds?

[letskilldemons]

I don't think I would be offended- keeping it casual at first seems like a pretty good way to go tbh. But I wouldn't go back to his the first night.

[Araya]

Lol. Do you know how many guys would bounce and not give the woman a first date if she slept with him BEFORE the date?

If any woman wants to do this, power to her. But I personally wouldn't do it.

[CheeseFreak]

Very offended. I wouldn't put out first just for it to have been a waste right after that.