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BYOS – Why I Believe Men are NOT Obligated to Pay For Dates (Page 2)
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Awesome take and agree 100%.
Though it sucks if you have to turn down a date, due to being a poor fag.(I know I am) :D
I think if you would say that to a guy: "I'd love to but I'm broke right now" they will probably offer to pay for you, I know I would.
@YourMonkeyDoes I would feel bad though.
Nah, you don't have to. Most guys probably don't mind to pay for a dinner.
They're probably happy enough that you will go out with them!
If there are financial troubles on her end I'd either pay or suggest something fun but still cheap/free.
Intro yoga at the community center, picnic, dollar movies, the community theatre, walk downtown and see the buskers, etc. So many good cheap dates c:
@jjmarvin I would think that the more free things you can find. The more impressive that is since you have to be pretty smart to know how to get some things for free.
Haha or cheap ;p
@jjmarvin Naw not a creep since it's always a challenge to find free games to download and play.
I like this article. While I am perfectly willing to pay for a date, I will only do so if I am asking her out. If she is the one asking then I might pay for the date if I can get into her pants or if I like her enough.
However, I will never insist paying because I find that ridiculous. If some one insist paying then I will stand aside and be happy to eat.
I don't care who pays, as long as it gets paid.
Shit, I'll pay.
Spilling the bill is actually very feminist. As a firm believer in gender equality, I wouldn't let my partner pay just because he's a guy.
splitting**
Usually men I go out on date with pays but I have absolutely zero issues for paying for myself and him
Couldn't agree more. Men shouldn't be treated like walking talking cash machines.
Ironically , that take comes up on the same page as this one , another ace take , your fellow females need to take heed of you , in fairness to women , " media " brainwashing fills female heads with negativity towards men & viewing men merely as a utility , at least you can think for yourself.. my kind of person !!
Yup, yup. =)
Independence and equality. I concur. ^-^
Ahhh such a good take... just split the bill and be done with it!
my girlfriend makes more than i do. whoever has money at the time pays.
One opinion is individualist, "People should agree on what works for them."
The other is authoritarian in that it expects that everyone should conform to some kind of standard.
Yet, both call themselves feminist. Makes me think.
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I don't believe in equality; I'll still pay anyway!
Yo mah dear are the WOMAN!! **FIST PUMP***
Thanks baby.
Here's the rule I usually go by.
If you asked first, you pay first. Unless of course the other person insists on paying their share.
I should pay because of my gender?
Hmm, I expect a nice blowjob by the end of the evening.. considering...
I'll pay buuut I expect the opposite by the end of the evening.
Retort?
@Smmyskittles won't be a boring evening :)
See who can pick up the check first then.
Of course men aren't obligated to pay for dates. But it's good if they do.
I pay only because I feel the need to I don't know why maybe its because how I was rasied. but I once spent $120 just for a move&food. Almost $30 tickets
Thats why i always tell the women to bring their purse... :)
A girl don't have to pay for anything as long as she's going out with me, she should just sit back and enjoy and me enjoy her company
I absolutely love this article. This is the direction we need to be going.