How many women do you know of that are happy to initiate contact, don't play hot and cold after the guy's approached, aren't bitchy to guys they're not interested in, don't play text games, don't require the guy pays for everything on the date (otherwise he must be cheap) and don't use silly rules in dating (e. g. the 3 month dating rule)? Because I don't know many and the number of young, western attractive women like that are even fewer.
Then I'd have met more people I consider stable and emotionally mature women - just ones that were a bit older than me. As for your point about being married one... so you found the needle in the haystack, good for you. Superficial traits of the women around you won't matter anymore after you've found that one person for you, so you're less likely to notice.
@the_rake Oh, I notice. Once you see, you can't unsee. lol. I don't know where you are, but if you are dealing with girls, then you need to search out older women who have their shit together.
Yeah, I think this whole idea of older women fulfilling the younger guy's MILF fantasy is a bit of a myth. If it wasn't I'd have already gone down that road (or maybe I'm just not attractive enough).
Yeah, well on OkC I used to hit up e. g. on 27-29 year olds and sometimes a little over 30. Some of these girls would message back to say sorry, but that I was too young. That was about a year ago, mind. I dunno, I just find it funny how people say women mature quicker than men. I haven't found that to be the case for the most part.
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Some gals can't change their mindset after their 16th birthday
I totally agree. I'm tired of dating boys, I want men.
Sounds to me like you can't handle a challenge. Or you're just getting old.
If you want to date women, then first, you have to be a man.
This place is a confirmed congregation of autistic dweebs.
Believe it or not, while pretty, some women/ girls are straight up losers.
It's sad to be 8 years out of high school and still see girls act like they're still in high school.
Glad to see you've seen the light... :-)
I completely agree with everything you said there
What are 18 year old mature and 38 year old females to you? Which one of them do you label as a girl and as a woman?
a man who understands what I want!!! nice take.
True... So so very true!!
I love being a woman.
I love you being a woman too 😉
It's much better than being a man in Western countries !!
At 35, it'd be pretty worrying if you didn't
Yes, some of us need grow up :)
Preach brother! Here's to all the women out there!
*Clapping* Welcome to adulthood young man :)
LOL, sorry. just saw that you are about my age.
Then stop dating girls then
True women are a rare commodity in the western dating climate.
@the_rake No, they're not.
@GreatnessRevamped
How many women do you know of that are happy to initiate contact, don't play hot and cold after the guy's approached, aren't bitchy to guys they're not interested in, don't play text games, don't require the guy pays for everything on the date (otherwise he must be cheap) and don't use silly rules in dating (e. g. the 3 month dating rule)? Because I don't know many and the number of young, western attractive women like that are even fewer.
@the_rake I know a lot and am married to one.
You are 24, girls your age are not women yet. It's happens around mid-late 20's.
@GreatnessRevamped
Then I'd have met more people I consider stable and emotionally mature women - just ones that were a bit older than me. As for your point about being married one... so you found the needle in the haystack, good for you. Superficial traits of the women around you won't matter anymore after you've found that one person for you, so you're less likely to notice.
@the_rake Oh, I notice. Once you see, you can't unsee. lol.
I don't know where you are, but if you are dealing with girls, then you need to search out older women who have their shit together.
@GreatnessRevamped
Yeah, I think this whole idea of older women fulfilling the younger guy's MILF fantasy is a bit of a myth. If it wasn't I'd have already gone down that road (or maybe I'm just not attractive enough).
@the_rake You don't have to go way older, just late 20's. I already did mid-30's, and it was alright.
@GreatnessRevamped
Yeah, well on OkC I used to hit up e. g. on 27-29 year olds and sometimes a little over 30. Some of these girls would message back to say sorry, but that I was too young. That was about a year ago, mind. I dunno, I just find it funny how people say women mature quicker than men. I haven't found that to be the case for the most part.
@the_rake People are idiots. Women do mature quicker, but fall for the same PUA game all the time. lol.
@GreatnessRevamped hmm... well, whether it's just women or both genders, I still maintain my original statement in response to @ikissedtheskyonce :
"True women are a rare commodity in the western dating climate."
@the_rake no, like attracts like
read the whole dialogue first.
@the_rake stop posting on my opinion I got a shit load of notifications please take it somewhere else
What about me I'm a baby :)
Yep. What he said.