How to Get a Girlfriend: Attractive, Decent, Or Even Unattractive (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure that would work...

[myTake Owner]

This is the "minimum requirements" you need to be able to get a girlfriend. To get girls interested in you that werent originally, and make yourself seem more attractive to the ones who are already interested Requires more than this. Going out and getting a girl could require more detailed info. But this is the "minimum" requirements to be able to go out and get a girl. (Ex: Dont be scary or creepy, no matter how many you approach you won't get anybody if you appear scary or creepy)

What parts dont you think aren't "minimum" requirements for girls to consider dating you?

[Opinion Owner]

The thing is... I have no self-confidence, I'm too shy... so most girls consider me just as a friend.

[chc0009]

How about average women?

[akanetuk]

Nice to know these

[babyfunny]

mens are weird...

[ModernDayCrusader]

Lol so simple!

[Anonymous]

9.5/10 / 10

[myTake Owner]

Why? This take wasn't about the details about how to proceed to get a girlfriend. It was about the minimum requirements to have for girls to at least give you a chance. there's more to getting a girlfriend then this.

But this take was directes at the guys who post "Why can't i get a girlfriend?" "Girls ask me for my numbers a lot but Why do girls stop responding to me?" "What are the requirements to get a girlfriend?"

This take covers most of the reasons why those guys can't get a girlfriend. If you fail these requirements, chances are you'll get rejected, (ex: being creepy, hurting her feelings , being really insecure, etc) . This was meant for them.

[Opinion Owner]

I need the positive reinforcement; I've never read this so clearly or heard it from someone else. I've only gone on my intuition, but this validates my experiences. I know it, but I have no one to validate it with me and I ask advice from others and get answers like if a girl smiles at me it doesn't mean she likes you, but they never say necessarily. They say it like it's not possible and you validated my thoughts by your experiences.

[Opinion Owner]

What you wrote isn't obvious to everyone. People take things they have or know for granted, but fail to realize everyone has to go through the levels which take a long time. What you wrote is taken for granted by a lot of people, but some people like me need the surety and some people don't know and you've now taught them.

[Opinion Owner]

For example haven't you heard many good looking people don't know their attractive? Everyone hates on looks (because of competition) - when you tell people they're surprised and grateful. Just an example. What you thought was obvious wasn't obvious to them.

[Opinion Owner]

No. I've never had a girlfriend but I have slept with 3 women? if that's weird and never had female friends or healthy male friends.