So the opposite of a nice guy is a mean guy AKA jerk. This myTake is an extended addition to 7 Reasons Why Nice Guys Will Always Finish Last. That myTake discussed why the stereotypical self-proclaimed "Nice guys" will always finish last. As a bisexual guy, the stereotypical self-proclaimed "Nice guys", who the author described, turn me off too. I wouldn't even want to be friends with that kind of guy. However, this take isn't about genuine real nice guys because I'm cool with those.
Other than being mean, we are handsome, tall, physically fit, funny and/or rich. These are the typical characteristics women want in a guy. A mean guy will not get any respect from people and he won't get laid if he doesn't have at least one of these attributes. The conclusion of the study, "Bodily attractiveness and egalitarianism are negatively related in males," proved us attractive guys don't have to be nice because having some desirable attributes can make up for our bad personalities.
We don't whine
We are mean, but we get laid anyways because we're attractive, so we don't have anything to whine about. Whining is a sign of weakness. Women don't like weak men. A mean guy isn't going to make himself look weak in front of anyone, especially women. If you want to be the offender, you can't show weakness. So we always stand our ground in order to look strong and invincible which is attractive to most women.
We don't claim to be nice guys when we aren't
Why should we call ourselves "nice" if we have other attractive qualities and if "nice" guys are generally perceived to be like beta males. We know people will call us out on it if we say we're nice but then contradict ourselves with our actions. People don't like inconsistency, so they respect us for not calling ourselves "nice" guys.
We're confident and assertive
Why are we so confident? It's probably because our attractiveness gives us the confidence to succeed with women. We know what we want and we go after it. Women prefer confident alpha males over unconfident beta males who lie and complain about being "nice".
"Nice" guys trash us but aren't taken seriously.
Imagine how annoying a "nice" guy sounds when he complains about mean guys? He will sound more annoying and rude than the mean guy... So therefore, girls will pick one of us over the "nice" guy. We're attractive so people would know the "nice" guy is just jealous of us.
For your information, this myTake is written in the perspective of a really mean, attractive guy.